Blog : Types of Dom's and Sub's

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4/2/2022 6:19 am

Types of Dom's and Sub's

How many different types of Doms and Subs are there?
And which types are you? I have read that most are more than one.
If you have more to add. Go for it.

ebolivits7 63M

7 posts
4/4/2022 6:43 am

Here are some types of Dominants from "Your Tango"

1. Top : Within the context of BDSM, "top" is a catchall phrase for the dominant partner — the one doing the tying, taking charge, giving orders and the like.
In some circumstances, a person may be a "service top," which is someone who enjoys taking control of their partner primarily as an essentially submissive way of pleasing them or because they've been instructed to do so.

2. Dom or Domme : The main difference between a Dom (male-identifying) or Domme (female-identifying) and a top is that neither will follow instructions given by someone else.
Where a top may perform an act like oral sex on a bottom at the bottom's command, a true Dominant will "give orders to a submissive, or otherwise employ physical or psychological techniques of control ... [in order to] instruct the submissive to perform the act on them."

3. Master or Mistress : While some believe that "service and obedience are often the core values in Master/slave structures," there are others who consider this relationship structure to be more spiritual.
The primary distinction between this BDSM relationship type and others is that a Master (male or male-identifying) or Mistress (female or female-identifying) holds "ownership rights to their slave's body, as property or chattel."

4. Daddy or Mommy : A Daddy Dom is "a slight variation from a traditional dominant ... in that they must consider their subs inner child dynamic." In these cases, "Daddy Doms are usually in full control ... but also have to take care of the social and emotional well being of their baby girl since their sub is in a slightly different mind space than traditional subs."
Daddies and Mommies get pleasure from spoiling, rewarding, disciplining and punishing their "little" as they see fit, and consider themselves to be protectors. These relationships tend be loving and long-term, and may or may not include some level of age play.

ebolivits7 63M

7 posts
4/4/2022 6:46 am

And here are some types of Submissives from "Your Tango"

1. Bottom : Similarly, "bottom" is the generic term for a submissive partner — the one being tied, spanked, commanded, and the like. A bottom may also be someone who enjoys submitting temporarily, and in limited ways.
Additionally, "a bottom in BDSM does not have to be the receptive partner; for example, a female dominant may command her submissive to penetrate her."

2. Sub : According to the folks at Pervette, "The main difference between a submissive and a bottom is that the submissive ostensibly does not give instructions, although they do set limits on what the dominant can do."
It is a submissive's choice and role to follow the orders, cues and commands they are given by their Dominant.

3. Slave : A slave within the BDSM lifestyle is someone who consents to surrender themselves as property of their owner.
Duties, expectations, acceptable types of sexual activity, clothing, diet, routines, and more may be contained within a slave contract, "a document that outlines the desires, limits, and expectations of [both] parties."

4. Domestic Servant : According to BDSM blog The Power Exchange, "The Domestic servant lives to serve and fulfill the needs of the household. This form of submission includes taking care of all household chores and tasks."

5. Pet : Pets are submissives who enjoy playing the role of an animal — often a puppy or kitten — to their Master or Owner. "Entry-level animal play may involve imitating the sounds of animals, crawling about on all fours, being hand fed or petted, or wearing a collar," says Kinkly.

6. Good Girl or Good Boy : Typically referred to as a little or babygirl, "the little girl submissive worships her Daddy Dom."
"She will do anything to please him because she knows that he makes it his mission to care for her and to protect her," explains Normandie Alleman. "Since she is secure in his feelings for her she trusts her Daddy and submits to him completely."
She continues, "The little girl puts her Daddy’s needs first and pleasing him is of the utmost importance to her. In return he fulfills her needs and disciplines her when she needs it."

7. Princess : A princess differs slightly from other subs in that she is willing to serve and submit, but only if what she is going to get is what she really wants.
A princess loves "being spoiled and pampered all day ... [but] There is another side to the princess role, and that is Princess by Day, Slut By Night ..."
"This is when the woman loves to be completely cared for and treated like royalty by her Dom, but at night to thank him, she becomes the dirtiest slut she can imagine and she loves every second of it."

8. Brat : Another one of Daddy's subs, a Brat is a submissive who enjoys taling back, misbehaving, and generally being difficult in order to get attention or have their needs met.
As Kinkly explains, brats are people who "enjoy being 'put in their place' rather than submitting easily. Likewise, some Dominants enjoy the challenge of getting a brat under control." Additionally, "Some brats use talking back, or phrases such as 'Is that all you've got?' as a way to goad their top into heavier play."


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