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Switching with a Friend I have dabbled with being a sub. Ilona was a friend of the family before I split from my ex. One day Ilona invited herself round and had obviously been drinking. Ilona declared that she had fancied me for ages but I had ignored her advances when I was in my previous relationship. We ended up having vanilla sex. The following morning, Ilona was annoyed that she had missed out on such fun for so long. She left in a bad mood. That lunch time she told me her , she was a single mother, were going to their grans for dinner and Ilona was coming to see me. When she arrived that evening she was vengeful. I had ignored her for the previous couple of years and I ‘owed her’. She told me to follow her and she went to my bedroom. Thinking we were going to continue as we were the night before I undressed but soon realised I was the only one naked. She took some handcuffs from her handbag and instructed me to lie on the bed, which I did. Once cuffed, I found Ilona taking her time with copious kissing, stroking and other foreplay. Following this she took her top off I was given each boob in turn to kiss and suck. Afterwards she finished undressing and climbed onto the bed. She gave me a good long look at her pussy before slowly descending onto my face. I was told to apologise with my tongue. After a while it was turned into a 69 and ended with Ilona riding my erection. Once she was satisfied, she dressed then walked towards the door. I reminded her that I was still handcuffed to the bed and wanted releasing. She told me she would only uncuff me if I agreed that she was in charge, in the bedroom, for the rest of the month. I knew her well enough to know she was not joking. She was clearly aggrieved that I had ignored her while I was in a relationship and Ilona was ‘a catch’ in her own right. The bargain was struck. For the following 3 weeks I was at Ilona’s beck and call for intimate times. She would text me, saying when she was coming round and what she wanted. I usually got 2-to-4 hours’ notice. Sometimes the visit was for a massage; a naked cuddle, perhaps with masturbation; oral sex; vanilla foreplay and sex. On one occasion she wanted a ‘cunnilingus and toys’ session. When she was wet she would smear herself on my face and chest before resuming with cunnilingus then toys. By the time she had finished I was covered in her cum from belly button to forehead. It was one of the ways of Ilona declaring what was hers – me. Her demands only increased from there. It started with a text saying she was going out that Friday night and would come to mine during the early hours of Saturday for a cuddle; that she wanted ‘sleepy sex’ from 7am before getting ready to collect her at 8:30am. That became a regular occurrence and the 3 weeks of her being in charge was drifting beyond that. During once such ‘sleepy sex’ session she squirted on me; then did it again. I was left wondering if the second ‘squirt’ was a small pee, not that it mattered. She had a fowl day at work. She was in trouble for this and that, some of which were not her fault. I received a text saying she had suffered her arse being kicked, so now my arse was hers. I ended up bending over so she could spank out her frustrations on my backside. A couple of sessions later she decided she was going to “have my arse” again. After a more playful spank, she presented three butt plugs: small, medium and large. She did not know lubricant was needed. Fortunately I had some. After a while she had me standing up, with a plug in and she moved round to the front. She helped herself to my genitals and finished with a blow job. Ilona started being more experimental after that. It was obvious who was firmly in charge now and she was making the most of my willing compliance. Towards the end of our fling, she ‘threatened’ to “shag my arse”. She never did. This is my only relationship where the woman was in charge. It is the only one where my bum was a plaything. I would not mind going back to receiving anal play or to having a relationship with a switch. Ilona was only in charge in the bedroom. Would I consider a full female-led relationship? It would depend on what was on offer. A few months ago I chatted to a recently divorced woman on Adult Hub. She had always wanted to dominate a man. Her preference were mainly centred around butt plugs, strap-on fun, bondage, cunnilingus (including face sitting), body worship and<b> water sports. </font></b>It would have been my first experience of a strap on. It turned out to be all day dream and she was not willing to follow through. I would have given her the opportunity to explore that side of herself. |
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