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0410blossom 52F
588 posts
9/18/2022 6:30 pm
Words that Ignite

Knowing the right words that stimulate arousal



I learned early how words had a effect on me in D/s relationships. But my response to words are purely subjective to the person who said them. My fondest memory was a Dom from the UK, who called me “Kitten”, and every time I heard Him utter those words in his Scottish accent, I’d become so sexually aroused that, I could feel myself cum. But it wasn’t just the accent, it was his commanding tone, intellect and amazement of how He knew what I needed at any given moment. Leaning of my response He loved to use a “You May” command, which instantly trigged a mental Orgasm to cum on command. It was the most remarkable thing I had ever experienced.

Now a year later I am in a new D/s relationship, where my Dom uses different words that have the same effect. But after reading a post written by DominateSoul, I learned that some Doms have trigger words too. So I experimented with my Dom by saying some words to him and his response was super charged, that I got a good hair pull and spanking out of it. Lol! This was not topping from the bottom, but finding ways to please my Dominate.

I have listed below in the comments some examples of words that are most commonly used. I hope you all find your words and have a wonderful time with them.

0410blossom 52F
708 posts
9/18/2022 6:35 pm

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Daddy
Mine / My ______
Toy / Pet / Naughty Girl / Kitten / Babygirl
Good girl / Good slut / Good pet / little one
Slut / Whore /Bitch / Cunt
Cockwhore / Cumslut / Fucktoy
“Who owns you?” / “Call me Sir”
“Who’s my naughty girl?”
“Whose pussy is this?” / “This pussy’s mine”
“Suck my cock like a slut!” / “Take that cock!” / “Take it now!”
“Cum for Me now!” / “Cum for Me kitten”
“You can’t come until I tell you” (whispered)
“I’m gonna fuck the hell out of you” (whispered)
“Good girl, take this cock” (whispered)
“Do you like my cock in you” (whispered)
“My baby girl’s pussy is so good”
“My slutty little girl”
“My pretty bitch”
“You’re my precious little whore”
“You’re my beautiful slut”
“You’re my lovely cunt”
“Which hole shall I abuse first? Hmmm…”

Important Notes from DominateSoul: [/]

It is important to recognize that the emotional connection of the sub to the person saying the words is much more important than the words themselves. The words only have power because of who is saying them, their voice and the specific characteristic of their speech (tone, pace, accent, emphasis, etc.). The sub’s emotional connection gives the person’s words this power. The same words spoken by another person may be insulting or offensive.

These “Hot Button” words are unique to each sub’s mind. Specific words/phrases have power for that specific sub. Learning what specific words carry power for a sub is like understanding how to arouse the body of a woman. It is specific and unique just to her.
Some women also find there are some words/phrases that resonate strongly when spoken (“Call me Sir” or “You are such a Good Girl”) and others that resonate strongest whispered (“You can’t cum until I give you permission”).


rondiri 65M
11155 posts
9/18/2022 6:58 pm

The right words, at the right time, are just as strong as the right touch at the right time


0410blossom replies on 9/18/2022 8:54 pm:
Your absolutely right! A Touch at the right time is just as powerful

RobertBishop 66M  
2133 posts
9/18/2022 7:01 pm

Very nice.

PS: Words that do NOT ignite:
"Did you put the trash out?"
"The cat is watching us."
"The car's battery is dead."
"Before I forget, there's a letter over there from the IRS with your name on it."
"Guess who died?"


0410blossom replies on 9/18/2022 9:01 pm:
Your thoughtful insight made me laugh so hard. Thank you for that and for the lesson with words that don’t ignite arousal.

brandygirasol 54T
9427 posts
9/18/2022 11:33 pm

Well I must say after seeing all those hot buzz words I'm sure feeling ignited🔥🤩🔥


0410blossom replies on 9/19/2022 8:18 pm:
Right!? All those words ignite💥, and by the way so does your new profile pic. So sexy brandy! You go girl! 🤩

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4117 posts
9/19/2022 3:32 am

words are powerful & have a lasting impact that can emit immediate emotional response!


0410blossom replies on 9/19/2022 8:21 pm:
Absolutely!

jenny14 75T  
90304 posts
9/19/2022 3:56 am

blossom

I think you are so right! It is WHO says them that matters most! It is the emotional connection, then the words....


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


0410blossom replies on 9/19/2022 8:44 pm:
Your so right Jenny! That emotional bond is so important. While D’s love to express ownership words like “Mine” or “Good Girl/Boy” they satisfy a subs deep need to be possessed and praised by the one who possesses them. 😊

drmgirl622 68F  
26060 posts
9/19/2022 6:47 am

Certain words/titles that Mistress uses bring on their own special response from me.


0410blossom replies on 9/19/2022 9:07 pm:
Those special responses are the best drmgirl, you lucky to have a wonderful bond with your Mistresses

RobertBishop 66M  
2133 posts
9/19/2022 8:38 am

Glad I could make you laugh.
Those reminded me of the World's Worst Phone-Sex Call:

"Are you stroking it?"
"Yes..."
"Is it really hard?"
"Yes..."
"Well hold the phone...your mother wants to speak to you."


0410blossom replies on 9/19/2022 9:08 pm:

rydermantel 69M
25020 posts
9/26/2022 5:05 pm

'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. ~ Alfred Lord Tennyson


Latexandbootfet 60M
17 posts
10/4/2022 3:18 pm

So true, words can be so powerful used at the right time


0410blossom replies on 10/4/2022 8:24 pm:
Words can bring a woman to her knees or melt in your hands.

rydermantel 69M
25020 posts
9/29/2023 12:27 am

Looking back. The right words are so important.



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