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0410blossom 52F
588 posts
10/1/2022 1:06 pm
Give and Take

Her submission was only hers to give.



He would have to put in the work
to help her perfect it.




Truth be told, it takes work from both sides.
A Dom/me can only mold you into His/Her idea of
perfection. There is no one universal way
because every Dom/me is different.


Some of my favorite quotes from Milton
describes this journey perfectly


"Long is the way and hard, that out
of Hell leads up to light."


“The mind is its own place, and in itself
Can make a heav'n of hell, a hell of heav'n.”


0410blossom 52F
708 posts
10/1/2022 1:06 pm

Your submission cannot be forced or pressured into. It is yours alone to give and you should only do so willingly with full knowledge of who your giving it to and what you expect from it.


iwnt2bindu_406 56M
33 posts
10/1/2022 1:11 pm

Well said, I couldn't agree more.


0410blossom replies on 10/29/2022 4:01 pm:
Thank you IW2BU, I really appreciate the comment.

SirMasterCal 53M
404 posts
10/1/2022 2:15 pm

Very True..a gift to your Master to value,treasure and respect


0410blossom replies on 10/29/2022 4:03 pm:
Thank you SirMasterCal, that was a beautiful statement

slaveforyou365 63M  
4514 posts
10/1/2022 2:58 pm



Slave rick


0410blossom replies on 10/29/2022 4:04 pm:
Thank you Rick

AbstractSkies 55M
75 posts
10/1/2022 3:06 pm

I love this, truly being submissive often misunderstood by many .. xxx tk160


0410blossom replies on 10/29/2022 4:08 pm:
Thank you AbstractSkies. Hopefully more will come to this understanding

rondiri 65M
11182 posts
10/1/2022 3:53 pm

How true.
In the BDSM group I moderate, so joker asked if it was OK, that if he was doing charitable work with single, destitute women, if he could offer those that were submissive the chance to be his slaves (just 2 or 3) and he'd care for them financially.
Some charity work, buying submission.


0410blossom replies on 10/29/2022 4:12 pm:
Omg buying submission? , thank goodness they have you as a moderator, I hope you set him strait.

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
10/1/2022 5:40 pm

blossom

Yes! It takes two to create a successful partnership!

Yes! Submission is a personal choice!

I love the quotes from Milton! Very thought provoking!


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


0410blossom replies on 10/29/2022 4:35 pm:
Thank you Jenny for your lovely response. I am eternally grateful for the wonderful experiences I have had; it is only natural of me to want give back in full measure.

EncompassingDom 61M

10/1/2022 5:57 pm

There is no beauty in forcing or enslaving. True beauty and therefore truth itself is only found in the free giving of ones self. In order to give of oneself, however, one needs to know who they are.


0410blossom replies on 10/29/2022 5:00 pm:
Thank you, EncompassingDom. That was an extraordinarily beautiful response. That really touched my heart and made me ponder not only the importance of knowing who you are but also your self worth. I will always be a life long learner.

rydermantel 69M
25399 posts
10/2/2022 1:36 am

It takes two and just not any two.


0410blossom replies on 10/29/2022 5:03 pm:
So very true Rydermantel!

NoNonsense_Dom 70M  
1538 posts
10/2/2022 2:41 am

Manners, Respect and Honesty are the way to show you are worthy and willing to make the effort to ensure that gift is cherished and valued. ALL great sayings!


0410blossom replies on 10/29/2022 5:16 pm:
Thank you NoNonsense_Dom, that is a beautiful response. From a submissive perspective, the gift of being cherished and immeasurably valued is mutual.

2newoldfolks 63M/61F

10/2/2022 3:03 am

or does a true Dom take what he wants ? I think not..cannot take what is not given


0410blossom replies on 10/29/2022 5:23 pm:
Thank you 2NOF, I agree only a deceiver will take what is not freely given.

bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4172 posts
10/2/2022 5:54 am

any successful relationship takes work & open communication from both partys...”no pain no gain”


0410blossom replies on 10/29/2022 5:39 pm:
Thank you, bdsmDOMdaddy. That is so very true. Lots of work on both parts, trust and communication.

ibeLowU21 70M
34 posts
10/2/2022 10:07 am

A true Dom must always appreciate a sub's needs before any relationship can begin.


0410blossom replies on 10/29/2022 5:41 pm:
Thank you ibeLowU21. I agree, that is why patience is so important.

0410blossom 52F
708 posts
10/29/2022 5:54 pm

Thank you 4Faksake. Sometimes the greatest gifts are in our own perseverance to overcome any and all obstacles for something you cherish.



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