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New Year - New Horizons Well, have I noticed some software upgrades with Alt or is it m imagination? I like the new stuff I can see even if it has always been there and I've only just found it! So, what are our New Year kink resolutions? I know what I want to do. First and foremost, meet some new ladies for play. Challenging of course because, understandably, this can be a scary environment, especially for newbies si gaining te kind of trust that results in total surrender is hard to say the lease. Having said that, to all newbies reading this, bear in mind, a real dominant will show understanding, want to know limits, will usually want to gain trust and not just assume it is given. Most of all, an experienced Dom will know that when the partner says, 'stop', it means exactly that. This said, it can still be a worry for the newbie. How do we know we are not dealing with a potential scammer or blackmailer? They are there too so beware. Use a pseudonym email address for secure off site email of you intend to communicate that way. Alternatively, use an anonymous messaging app like Line or KIK or Google Chat (with a fake name of course). If unsure, stick to this site: it is safe. The biggest challenge for me is working out who is a genuine, 'player' and who just wants fantasy chat. I don't mind the latter but I prefer folk to be honest as it can be frustrating when nothing ever comes of impleid action. Try to qualify contacts with questions like, 'are you here to chat or to meet for real encounters? One to watch out for is the person whose account is deactivate. The concurrently, a new account pops up, very similar, same area, age etc and when texting or using IM, the writing style is the same. They never give any other means of communicating, no email etc. I know someone who has had 4 such ID's over the last 4 years. Chat by all means but expect little from this type as they are probably not serious about meeting. So, all in all, a full, exciting year ahead. have fun |
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