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RevAlex 47M
3 posts
9/7/2022 3:38 am
Ghosting - Venting


SO, about 6 months ago, I found someone on here, we clicked, we seemed really compatible, then bang, gone, nothing. Kik messages being delivered, still active on here...

Week ago she turns back up, tells me how she ended up with a vanilla guy, how boring it was and what a nice guy I am. How too many guys in the lifestyle are only after sex and arranged to meet, today. I actually quite like her so I have no issues with behaving. Then two days ago, BANG, gone again.

I can't confirm the meet today, I'm not sure I should even bother, but I probably will as I'm not THAT guy. She is active on here today, once again messages are delivered but not read.

Seriously!

"I'm sorry I'm not Interested" or "I'm happy to be friends"
Its not<b> bloody </font></b>hard is it? Everyone stays happy more or less.

Plzrmeister 67M  
10553 posts
9/7/2022 5:40 am

Call it a day .... and don't look back.

Either that or attach a 'Kick Me' sign to your backside. People will treat you the way you let them.

Make Women Female Again


RevAlex replies on 9/7/2022 6:38 am:
I wont entertain it again. I tend to assume the best of people.

0410blossom 52F
708 posts
9/7/2022 7:11 am

Oh Rev, that’s so disappointing to hear. She should have been honest with you about what she was looking for. I normally smell a fake when someone wants me to use kik. Anyway, I suggest you just close that chapter and move on. There are real people out here that will appreciate you and your kinkiness.


rondiri 65M
11198 posts
9/7/2022 10:03 am

Not worth the trouble if not reliable. Now is the time she should be making a GOOD impression, and she's making a bad one. It won't change later, in all probability.



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