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Mmm fuck no. Each of us have many different things and thoughts that turn us on getting really hot. I try to be non-judgmental when it comes to another person's kinks. I believe if whatever yours are and they turn you on and helps get you off then do and make yourself feel good Lick... Greg 😉
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For many, fear equates to the needed push that is needed to grow into what they crave. We often find that what was pain, is now pleasure, and the mix of both pushes harder than we ever thought.
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Some people can do that. Others dealing with more severe abuse are lucky if they ever can partake in the trauma inducing play again. If someone CAN turn trauma into fetish, more power to them.
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it’s all a matter of ones perspective you over came your fears thus became stronger from it...crazy how what we experienced growing up forms our sexuality & fetishes as adults!
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Good for You! You have the ability to understand excitement and fear come across on parallel waves and can be interchanged. I do believe many slaves and such have this capacity as well, if you think about it.
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Not at all, and never let yourself feel bad or weird about that. Life goes round and round on a very strange wheel. And that wheel isn’t perfectly round, so it has a wobble to it. A parabolic orbit that is wholly unpredictable. You are doing your level best to accommodate the chaos of that orbit. Sounds like you’re having a blast doing it as well! So, I say double down on all your fetishes and continue to enjoy to the fullest.
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Hey could have turned out far worse right? so just enjoy being you  .
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Is this any different to a person with a fear of heights doing a tandem skydive? A person with a fear of water forcing themselves to learn to swim? Sitting at a window seat when you fear flying? Sitting in the passenger seat of a race car when you fear speed? I don't know that any of my examples would induce arousal, but I do believe that they are on a parallel. Like you claiming your fetish, many of the people that do these things, do so ongoing as a way of therapy to conquer their fear, or at least be able to live with them. Likewise, you chase your fetish, and in my mind that is sexually healthy for you. If I ever come to visit you, remind me to bring a sexy bullying woman with me. I can use my tongue to mop up the mess as necessary.
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Thanx to everyone for the support. I do agree…not everyone has the ability to do this. I feel for them and I do consider myself luck 
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Thats a great way of turning a bad situation to your advantage. Love it like to see you playing with your cunny afterwards in a toilet cubicle thatd be good fun
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