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Real or wannabe’s? Would like to read some insight!!! I have been on this sight for about 19 years now…. I’ve made friends along the way in the early years and met a few after taking on the physical aspects of the lifestyle. (More bots now than years ago…. Crazy! Look what happen to yahoo messenger🤭) I know we all or most have limits to an extent and we definitely have our own preferences. Me personally have a few hard limits (obvious limits but unfortunately still have to set them for some). As far as my preferences, as we all should know it is definitely all about the mind in this lifestyle but in close second is attraction/chemistry connection when it comes to finding “that special one”. I, like most, have my preferences in my profile. I have resorted to a short and sweet profile so that it is easily read. Now I just have my preferences and I randomly change the ‘about me’ part as if I’m posting on a vanilla social media. Lol! So, to get the point of the topic of ‘Real or wannabe’s’…..I get messages, not like I use to when I was in my 20’s, but still ever so often I get a wave that I have to sift through. Some are with gentlemanly respect and most are ‘hit the floor running’ degrading. Like most, I expect if Dom’s don’t meet my preferences (age limit 100% of the time) to not waste his time or mine and message me…. But they still do, trying to convince me to be their sub/slave with their sales pitch. So to speak!!! No offense!!!! Very few send me a compliment and just leave it at that…. Those will get a new friend but nothing more. Always good to make new friends. Some subs/slaves prefer to be ‘doormat’ as I call them…. Again…no offense intended!!!! Just how I can easily describe what I am not. They are the ones who like to be 100% NO LIMITS, being told what, how, when, where and however else by their Dom/Master with no voice, no thought, no brain. I personally am a submissive with a voice I would like to be heard, opinions I would like to be weighed, conversations, thoughts I would like to express and still know in the end it is my Dom’s voices who commands the final word. But I am not going to hide the fact that I have slave tendencies…  So, with all that said, is it normal for ‘Real Dom’s’ to send degrading messages when sending that introductory 1st message without finding out if the sub/slave likes to be disrespected as such right out the gates? Or would those be labeled as ‘wannabe dom’s’??? |
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‘Real Dom’s’ DO NOT send degrading messages. Therefore, they are not real Doms. A real Dom does not degrade submissive in any form of communication, act or deed.
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The trash that residing on this site is appalling... but, there are gems. .-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-._.-*-. "I hate mankind, for I think myself one of the best of them, and I know how bad I am." - Joseph Baretti   
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10/16/2022 3:44 pm |
The trash that residing on this site is appalling... but, there are gems.
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Safely true the bots and whanta b doms. Saddly people degrade, get lazy try for the fast easy way. Your right Respect is the way. Respect your self and others. In my opinion . I would not go so far an stating that Degrading is never to be used by any true Dom , but I do feel a true Dom dos take the time to know whome He is with, taking the time to discover with that person what needs are present. I have never been a fan of the cookie cutter mentality of if your a Dom your X . And if your a submissive your. In this box. Stay put never move. I took have been on this form many years and before that Yahoo chat rooms. I feel that few People care to put in the time needed to make long lasting relationships happen. To many desire instant spark. Instant sex. There perfect match , but no time spent to aquire that connection. Hen s we get. Lazy short cutters . Every one holds some shair of the blame for the demise of. Something like Alt. The parent company greed. For one not maintaining . (IM never working yet still taking coin wether connection fails or not) I just realized this reply cound become a book! Short ansure. It is not the mark of Dominance to. Degrade others. As a default. I would call it Lazy. So no one should feel bad isn't there Iggy to cut. The infection. Mr Mike ps you doing your due diligence . Was a wise move.
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another great read,, some or is it better to say anymore there is no respect even in this life style there is the respect point for just what each person wants things to be
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