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680 posts
3/21/2023 8:38 pm

To be selfish or not to be selfish (reply)

Dominant/submissive, Master/Slave, top/bottom. No matter which you choose to use, the roles connotate that one is selfish and takes, and the other gives unselfishly.

A BDSM is an exchange of power . .
Many believe that a power exchange
is when one person tells another
what to do . . and they obey.
Actually that is a power imbalance.
When a dominant man truly loves
a submissive, she becomes his weakness.
When a submissive woman truly loves
a dominant, he becomes her strength.
That is an exchange of power.

uncommon1 66M

1493 posts
3/21/2023 8:44 pm

symbiosis has nothing to
do with BDSM since we aren't
a biology experiment.

rondiri 65M

11204 posts
3/21/2023 9:34 pm

Choosing to ignore definitions in the dictionary doesn't make you right, it makes you egotistical THINKING you are right.
And there are plenty of BDSM dynamics without love. Love isn't a prerequisite of a BDSM dynamic.
You really are a sad case trying to prove your points woefully.

uncommon1 replies on 3/22/2023 5:45 am:
sym·bi·o·sis
/ˌsimbīˈōsəs,ˌsimbēˈōsəs/
nounBIOLOGY
interaction between two different organisms living in close physical association, typically to the advantage of both.

brandygirasol 55T

9437 posts
3/23/2023 5:59 am

Sir I venture to say that by it's very nature BDSM is a power sex thing. Hard to be a Master if you don't have a Slave to lord it over. Equally hard to be a Slave if you don't have a Master to serve. One needs the Other IMHO👄

uncommon1 replies on 3/23/2023 4:17 pm:
The chemistry between a Dominant
will and a submissive will is less
a need and more of a calling, a
destiny. In a power exchange
dynamic the chemistry isn't based
on power or fetishes or demands or
consequences. It is based on nurturing.
The Dominant will and the submissive
will are equal, but different. Yin
and yang, two halves of the circle.
They don't need each other Brandy, they
fulfill each other. There is no
commonality in how I fulfill my partner,
or you yours or anyone for that matter.
The commonality is in our not fitting
into the barriers of society and perhaps
the lengths we are willing to go to, to
fulfill each other.

brandygirasol 55T

9437 posts
3/23/2023 5:31 pm

Sir I can agree with that.... And Im all about fulfilling my DOM/Boyfriends needs for sure❤️.... The tough way he goes about enforcing getting his needs met I guess it's what I need for fulfilment... Ha☺️

uncommon1 replies on 3/23/2023 6:44 pm:
Brandy you would crawl
through hell itself to
hear two words: "good girl".

brandygirasol 55T

9437 posts
3/23/2023 7:01 pm

Yes Sir I would do that for the right DOM💋💋💋


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