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uncommon1 66M  
668 posts
4/14/2023 1:49 pm
Why should a submissive submit? (reply)

We don't choose this way, off the beaten
path . . It chooses us. The reason we walk
into the abyss is simple, we all seek intimacy.
How dark, taboo, forbidden depends on the
calling in your soul.

uncommon1 66M  
1449 posts
4/14/2023 1:53 pm

 Choosing who to submit to is not an easy process.

A true submissive doesn't surrend to
another person . . They surrender to
a calling in their own soul, to please.


brandygirasol 55T
9435 posts
4/14/2023 5:41 pm
    Quoting uncommon1:
    Choosing who to submit to is not an easy process.

    A true submissive doesn't surrend to
    another person . . They surrender to
    a calling in their own soul, to please.
Sir you are correct it's WHO WE ARE☺️


uncommon1 replies on 4/14/2023 6:01 pm:
A Dominant will doesn't create
a submissive will an vice versa.
In those moments, it isn't taking
or yielding. It's chemistry, between
souls, hearts, minds and demons.

rondiri 65M
11185 posts
4/14/2023 6:38 pm
    Quoting uncommon1:
    Choosing who to submit to is not an easy process.

    A true submissive doesn't surrend to
    another person . . They surrender to
    a calling in their own soul, to please.
Once again, you read things the way you want to.
The process includes WHO to submit TO. THAT is not an easy process and has little to do with any calling when you are selecting WHO to submit to.


uncommon1 replies on 4/14/2023 7:28 pm:
The submissive will doesn't choose
who to surrender to. They choose
who to meet, who to have a relationship
with and even who to be intimate
with. But deciding who to be submissive
to and how much isn't part of some sort
of "process" or plan. Its prompted
by stimulus and the chemistry within
the intimacy of a relationship.

Jizmaglobin 52M
8 posts
4/14/2023 7:48 pm

 The submissive will doesn't choose
who to surrender to. They choose
who to meet, who to have a relationship
with and even who to be intimate
with. But deciding who to be submissive
to and how much isn't part of some sort
of "process" or plan. Its prompted
by stimulus and the chemistry within
the intimacy of a relationship.

That is very well put.


needy1foryoubaby 34F
231 posts
4/14/2023 8:23 pm

 There is a vast difference between those who are a submissive and those who live in a fantasy world.

If I write five lines of complete bullshit, and then pretend to have a beef with the someone, does that make me popular?


uncommon1 replies on 4/15/2023 6:28 am:
There is a vast difference between those who are a submissive and those who live in a fantasy world.

To most submissives being demure
and pleasing others begins as a fantasy.
Until they mature and understand that it
is actually part of their core. The difference
between it being a fantasy and a reality
is self awareness. Bullshit is of course a
subjective view, but then isn't looking for
matters of the heart an soul on the inter
web it's own ineptness?

rondiri 65M
11185 posts
4/15/2023 10:48 am

 uncommon1 replies on 4/14/2023 10:28 pm:
The submissive will doesn't choose
who to surrender to. They choose
who to meet, who to have a relationship
with and even who to be intimate
with. But deciding who to be submissive
to and how much isn't part of some sort
of "process" or plan. Its prompted
by stimulus and the chemistry within
the intimacy of a relationship.

That's the kind of thinking the causes all the traumatic experiences in the lifestyle these days. Stimulus and chemistry can be forged by predators. That's what they do to lure and trick submissives. It takes more. Once again, you prove that you haven't a clue.


uncommon1 replies on 4/15/2023 12:03 pm:
About 60% of men and 50% of women
in America will experience trauma
at least once in their lives.
(American Psychological Association)

The causes of trauma are wide and deep.
To blame someone's trauma on their
sexual preference is just absurd.

Ron, you don't have the degree, education
experience, knowledge or expertise to
any point, with regard to psychological
trauma.

rondiri 65M
11185 posts
4/16/2023 9:32 am

 uncommon1 replies on 4/15/2023 3:03 pm:
About 60% of men and 50% of women
in America will experience trauma
at least once in their lives.
(American Psychological Association)

The causes of trauma are wide and deep.
To blame someone's trauma on their
sexual preference is just absurd.

Ron, you don't have the degree, education
experience, knowledge or expertise to
any point, with regard to psychological
trauma.

That's moronic. You compare a view of all people against those in BDSM for trauma. Either way, it's not acceptable just because it happens. I'm NOT blaming on their sexual preference. Maybe you are. I'm preaching SAFETY to cut down on the trauma. Seems everyone else that reads this article understands that. Maybe that's what makes you uncommon. No brains to your thinking.


uncommon1 66M  
1449 posts
4/17/2023 6:23 am

 That's moronic. You compare a view of all people against those in BDSM for trauma.

We are all people Ron!
You don't realize that bdsm is only one
of many, many dimensions in a person.
But we are all unique, we think different
thoughts, have different ideas and unfortunately
you can't put us all in one neat little classification.
I'm going tell you what I told my children
when they turned eighteen. As an adult there
is no longer anything that is right or wrong
there is just consequences for your actions.
We're all adults here, hopefully, an you can't keep
us safe and trust me, most of us have learned
that lesson about consequences.



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