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uncommon1 66M  
669 posts
6/1/2023 5:58 pm
Submissive’s CAN disagree and object (Reply)

I am a proponent of the protocol that says a submissive should never use the word “NO”.
But that DOESN’T mean they have to say “YES” to everything a Dominant says or wants.

A submissive shouldn't have to negotiate
limits or use of their safe word in mid-session.
Keep in mind that a submissive in sub space is
of a diminished mental capacity.

uncommon1 66M  
1452 posts
6/1/2023 5:59 pm

 Establishing limits should take place prior to any
activity and when the person is in a completely
cognizant state of mind. A session should only be stopped
one way, with a safe word!


happyface20 22F

6/1/2023 9:07 pm
    Quoting uncommon1:
    Establishing limits should take place prior to any
    activity and when the person is in a completely
    cognizant state of mind. A session should only be stopped
    one way, with a safe word!
Just curious, what 'safe word'?


uncommon1 replies on 6/2/2023 4:30 am:
In these conversations about
limits and negotiations between
Dominants and submissives the
key thing is consent and agreement.
Most fail to realize that those
things are only valid if the person
is in a "normal" cognizant state of
mind and not coerced. Sub space is
a form of self hypnosis and a diminished
mental capacity and consent or any
negotiated agreement would not be valid.
The generally accepted BDSM protocol for a
submissive wishing to end a particular
activity or session is the use of the
safe word they an their Dom agreed upon.

brandygirasol 55T
9435 posts
6/2/2023 2:48 am
    Quoting uncommon1:
    Establishing limits should take place prior to any
    activity and when the person is in a completely
    cognizant state of mind. A session should only be stopped
    one way, with a safe word!
Totally Agree Sir😌


uncommon1 replies on 6/2/2023 4:37 am:
I'd also like to mention that
too many Dominants view the use
of a safe word as a personal affront
the their authority. People's
limitations vary from time to time
and most submissives hate having
to use a safe word and view using it
as failing, they don't need a Dom's
attitude or guilt!!

brandygirasol 55T
9435 posts
6/2/2023 5:19 am

 Yes Sir that's how I feel about "safe words" I don't use "safe words".. However I like having a designated "safe word" even though I won't use it because... I'm a big pussy with a low pain tolerance so I make noise and get whiney 😥.but I'm not using any "safe word" so My DOM can choose to ignore my sissy ass and keep on doing whatever...Ha😏


uncommon1 replies on 6/2/2023 4:29 pm:
Brandy everyone here knows
that no matter how submissive
you are, you're one hard
bit.. to ignore!


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