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uncommon1 66M  
668 posts
7/29/2023 10:46 am
Is a sadist the same as a sensual.. see what you think (Reply)


Aren't a sadist and sensual the Same?
Don't both enjoy the concept of a naked,bound slave..


A sensualist is concerned with gratification
of the senses and physical, especially sexual,
pleasure.

A sadist is a person who derives pleasure, especially
sexual gratification, from inflicting pain or humiliation
on others.

They couldn't be more opposite. One is into devout severe
physical pain and the others is into the mental gradification
of sex.


uncommon1 66M  
1449 posts
7/29/2023 10:47 am

A sensualist isn't even considered a
BDSM fetish Leo.


eroticallyincldn 70F
1636 posts
7/29/2023 1:06 pm

Well I am a sensualist....but I think that some pain that enhances sexuality not for pains sake I can handle...I believe it works ...perhaps you can go through my blog it will explain....it is a journey....and a discovery...


uncommon1 replies on 7/29/2023 1:41 pm:
We have discussed this R
and I think you are equally
a masochist as a sensualist
with certain people.

brandygirasol 55T
9435 posts
7/29/2023 1:43 pm

For a sissified masochist like myself I'm much more excited hooking up with a sadist❤️...and the more HE cracks the whip on my derriere the better...😏


eroticallyincldn 70F
1636 posts
7/31/2023 1:21 pm

thats a very interesting observation sometimes I think I crave that pain yet my character is different...hard to think of it...It makes me feel strange....and aroused.....


uncommon1 replies on 7/31/2023 5:26 pm:
R, our kink doesn't define
us absolutely.
Generally we are multi
dimensional. Sometimes
what we say isn't what
we mean. Often women
say I don't want to be
hurt when what they mean
is don't break my heart.
Pain isn't always viewed
as hurting. Sometimes
it is simply how we please
someone and receiving
their approval is more
important than a bruise
or a welt. Most masochists
see pain as the threshold
to aftercare and they
would walk through hell
itself to hear "good girl".

eroticallyincldn 70F
1636 posts
8/1/2023 7:02 am

of course that makes sense.....but sometimes what I was craving was that feeling of tipping over the edge...falling, till i received the end feeling.... that burst of need being satisfied by that man the one who always loved me and always took care of That man whom I adored ...but Alas nothing is forever and he left not because he wanted to but because he had no choice...I miss that part of him where we could talk i could confide....have a good week....



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