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uncommon1 66M  
668 posts
1/11/2024 12:17 pm
Obey/Obedience (reply)

This is really a cornerstone of submission.

Here are the definitions of each: Obedience:
Obedience refers to the act of following
instructions or orders from someone in a
position of authority.
Submission: Submission refers to the act of
yielding to the authority or control of someone
else.

uncommon1 66M  
1449 posts
1/11/2024 12:32 pm

 A submissive will does not yield
to another person, thing or idealogy.
A submissive yields to the demons,
cravings and dark desires within
themselves.
They aren't obeying another person, they're
obeying the destiny within themselves.
That is the cornerstone of a submissive will.
A submissive will has a deep abiding need
to please . . Not a need to obey.
submission has nothing to do with obedience
but everything to do with liberation and letting
your inner demons out to play.


FunAlphaGuy 56M

1/11/2024 3:14 pm

 Nice breakdown


boh99 68M
3154 posts
1/11/2024 8:52 pm

 agreed, submission not because one is inferior, but because need drives it.


uncommon1 replies on 1/12/2024 12:27 am:
This would be easier to understand
if you put BDSM in simpler terms
for the average person to grasp.
BDSM is ritualized,fetishized sex
and it is not a complete relationship
but a destiny within a relationship.
The most important part to understanding
BDSM is understanding the difference
between power and strength.
A Dominant will and a submissive will
are drawn by a need for an exchange of
power.
It is the craving of unspeakable desires
that we keep hidden but need fulfilled
that makes Dominants and submissives equal.
Many believe that a power exchange
is when one person tells another
what to do . . and they obey.
Actually that is a power imbalance.
When a dominant man truly loves
a submissive, she becomes his weakness.
When a submissive woman truly loves
a dominant, he becomes her strength.
That is an exchange of power.
There is no dominance without submission
as there is no submission without
dominance.
Two equal but difference halves of the
circle make the circle whole. What
a dominant will and a submissive will
seek more than anything, is wholeness.

brandygirasol 55T
9435 posts
1/12/2024 8:53 am

 Well I guess that I agree somewhat.....👄



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