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uncommon1 66M  
668 posts
1/13/2024 8:13 pm
Qualifications (reply)


Do you consider if your prospective partner, or your partner for that matter, is qualified to do what they will be doing or are doing with you?
Do they have the qualities needed to be a Dominant or a submissive>


Finding a partner for a relationship is
not interviewing candidates for a position
that requires, "qualifications".


uncommon1 66M  
1449 posts
1/13/2024 8:15 pm

5 Essential Traits of Lasting Relationships
Mutual Trust. "For it is mutual trust, even more than mutual interest that holds human associations together. ...
Mutual Respect and Effective Communication. ...
Affection and Intimacy/Shared Connectedness. ...
Mutual Assistance and Support (Especially When Times Are Tough) ...
Irreplaceability.
Ref; Psychology Today.

You're looking for a life partner for a meaningful
relationship not vetting/qualifying applicants


brandygirasol 55T
9435 posts
1/13/2024 9:58 pm

First thing I ask the prospective DOM is how things would be IF I agree to hook up... 😌


uncommon1 replies on 1/14/2024 6:09 am:
Apparently you meet men that have
no imagination and have a cookie
cutter plan they use for each session.

eroticallyincldn 70F
1636 posts
1/14/2024 10:54 am

I have had my share of being scared witless...es
pecially when i was learning my way...but along the way many educated me...taught me what is right and what is a no no...In the end I was blessed with 2 Sirs...as for my husband no sex at all...for a great many years ....

And he still never understood what I needed ,wanted...It all shows in my writing and am happy I have that....



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