Blog : Ultimatums (reply)

668 posts
1/18/2024 12:30 pm

Ultimatums (reply)

Some things in BDSM can be both positive and negative, depending on how they are used. Ultimatums can work that way.

Ultimatums are not a valid BDSM protocol.

A true Dom(me) barks no demand for power
prior to negotiation and drawing boundaries.
Dom(me)s do not coerce, set ultimatums,
manipulate, or berate someone for submission—
unless, of course, berating is specifically
requested.

uncommon1 66M

1449 posts
1/18/2024 12:31 pm

More precious than the physical binding, the
handcuffs and nipple clamps, is the abstract
sanctity of trust in psychological, emotional
and spiritual realms of the participants.
Recognized in the honored traditions of BDSM,
a true Dom(me) is one who earns their right to
receive this trust.

rondiri 65M

11187 posts
1/19/2024 7:33 am

Once again, you show how little you know and how little you pay attention.
Using ultimatums as a game can be very enjoyable in a dynamic and is a widely used game.
No, it is not used as a protocol to demand obedience, that would be the wrong use. But is used as a giving a choice.

uncommon1 replies on 1/19/2024 8:54 am:
Ron you wrote,
"While it,{ultimatums}, is certainly
a threat being made, it falls within the
dynamics protocols".
But now you want to correct yourself to say
that used as a protocol would be wrong if used
as a demand for obedience. But is a "choice".
You're so fuckin illiterate, the meaning of
the word ultimatum is NOT as a choice but as
a conditional demand with a threat which,
if not met, leads to the consequences of the
threat.
This is why you blocked me so my replies have
to be posted like this.

rondiri 65M

11187 posts
1/20/2024 10:17 am

Why is it always ONLY you that can figure out what I write?


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