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uncommon1 66M  
664 posts
2/22/2024 12:29 pm
Ego (reply)

I dare say that a Dominant without a decent ego isn’t going to be very dominant.


Ego is a mental state of the pride we
hold for ourselves.
Nothing destroys a relationships more
than one partners ego.

uncommon1 66M  
1406 posts
2/22/2024 12:35 pm

 There is NO ego in a power exchange
relationhip. You cannot care about
yourself more than your partner.


MOCHAToy 30F
59 posts
2/22/2024 2:27 pm

 Nothing is more fragile or fuc up like the male ego. It can be built up or destroyed in a single word, act or expression. It will send a message to kill, destroy or self destruct when faced with harsh truths. Most are ruled blindly by it and we all have suffered for the sake of sanity.


uncommon1 replies on 2/22/2024 3:55 pm:
Excessive ego is not gender exclusive.

meltwill2 72M  
3792 posts
2/22/2024 6:42 pm

 uncommon1 replies - Excessive ego is not gender exclusive.

So absolutely correct......


uncommon1 replies on 2/22/2024 6:54 pm:
The ego is reluctant to experience the
unknown, to step outside it's
comfort zone. The ego doesn't share
power, it garners it.

rondiri 65M
11158 posts
2/23/2024 8:54 am

 Well gee, I think I said JUST THAT. Thanks


uncommon1 replies on 2/23/2024 9:12 am:
If you had said the same I
wouldn't have to clarify
that there should be no ego
involved in a relationship
of any kind.
Apparently, even you can't
understand your own blogs!!

brandygirasol 54T
9427 posts
2/24/2024 1:33 am

 Well I've never met a DOM without a BIG EGO do they exist???😏


uncommon1 replies on 2/24/2024 5:48 am:
There is a big difference between a
power exchange relationship and a
power imbalance relationship. Most,
if not all, power imbalance relationships
involve a partner with an excessive ego.
An excessive ego believes that all of the
relationship desires and goals evolve
from them and that their way is the only
way.
I not saying that power imbalance
relationships don't exist, but that they are
not what the current BDSM standards stress
in the type of balanced exchange of power
that are most want in a long term partnerships.


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