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uncommon1 66M  
670 posts
4/20/2024 3:31 pm
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Without the knowledge you are at the mercy of the predators

Having a knowledge of BDSM or
of the fetishes that you most want
to explore does not protect you
from predators.
BDSM is afterall, only a type of sexual
practice. Very few people live BDSM
as a "lifestyle". Most people don't live
in the roles full time but may engage
a portion of the power exchange.
Fatal outcomes of BDSM plays are rarer
than autoerotic fatalities and natural
deaths related to sexual activities.


uncommon1 66M  
1434 posts
4/20/2024 3:37 pm

Predators are a bad fact of
life and the internet.
The idea that BDSM is inheritly
violent an dangerous is a myth.
For millions of participants its
far more a sexual dimension than
anything more seriously.


rondiri 65M
11178 posts
4/21/2024 8:37 am

Learning safety measures that are basic to vetting and learning what is ACTUALLY part of the life style CAN save you from predators. Predators seek those that don't know what to expect and pounce... But I guess you've never been in that position, and don't give a shit if others are.


uncommon1 replies on 4/21/2024 10:00 am:
I actually met a serial killer
an the instinct that save me
had nothing to do with learned
experience or the "lifestyle".

The crap you spew doesn't serve
any actual purpose except to
make you feel like a self appointed
expert. Otherwise you wouldn't
ban people, like me that offer a
opposing view of your blogs.

meltwill2 72M  
3808 posts
4/21/2024 12:13 pm

    Quoting rondiri:
    Learning safety measures that are basic to vetting and learning what is ACTUALLY part of the life style CAN save you from predators. Predators seek those that don't know what to expect and pounce... But I guess you've never been in that position, and don't give a shit if others are.
Pay no attention to him.....he only writes to read what he has written....
and you can tell by his condescending writing that he really does not
give a shit what position others are in......


rydermantel 69M
25376 posts
4/24/2024 3:05 pm

    Quoting rondiri:
    Learning safety measures that are basic to vetting and learning what is ACTUALLY part of the life style CAN save you from predators. Predators seek those that don't know what to expect and pounce... But I guess you've never been in that position, and don't give a shit if others are.
Where did you meet this person and why?


rydermantel 69M
25376 posts
4/24/2024 3:07 pm

    Quoting meltwill2:
    Pay no attention to him.....he only writes to read what he has written....
    and you can tell by his condescending writing that he really does not
    give a shit what position others are in......
Now that I find it interesting.



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