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uncommon1 66M  
666 posts
4/25/2024 2:16 pm
consistency {reply}


Something I have always believed a Dominant should be, is consistent.

If consistency is about reliability
and intent . . .


uncommon1 66M  
1423 posts
4/25/2024 2:16 pm

Spontaneity is about
impulse and instincts.


Vikingargo 67M
636 posts
4/25/2024 2:35 pm

Consistency in general, flexibility as needed.

There's no sense in a Dominant being a stone with no give all the time.


uncommon1 replies on 4/25/2024 3:03 pm:
People come in all varieties an
you should look for a partner that
matches you're level of spontaneity.
Just because ron prefers being
"consistent", that doesn't mean it's
the only way to be or even that it
is better than being more spontaneous.


sletje1999 24F
134 posts
4/26/2024 3:23 am

I don't think consistency is the same as being rigid. I interpret it more in the sense of not being whimsical. And in that context I certainly would consider consistency as an important aspect of any good dom.
And consistency is not the opposite of being spontaneous. Those two can very well coexist next to each other in the same person.


uncommon1 replies on 4/26/2024 4:56 am:
The point to my reply is that
how you define consistent isn't
important. The importance in
a relationship is compatibility,
whether you're consistent, rigid
or more flexible you should seek
a partner that shares your temperament.


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