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What I have noticed I have had a profile here for a few years since my divorce. When I first logged into the site, I felt I found a community where I didn’t feel weird or crazy for my thoughts and feelings. I have met a couple of others and corresponded with many others. I grew up understanding men and women approach, see life and relationships differently. Though I wonder if I am still the naive woman when I first logged in here. More often then not, when I respond to someone, the expectation is, I belong and am committed to them after a few words. Most times, I find myself questioning my own deep feelings. |
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Hi primal I just wanted to get a clear understanding of what you said. When you say that when your responding to the person your chatting with they make you feel like they have control over you and that you are belonging to them ? Or your the one that gets the feeling of by answering their questions that you feel like you are under their control and you belong to them ? I just wanted to make sure I fully understood what you said in your blog. Thx I'll watch for your reply and then I can give you my 2 cents worth 😉 Lick
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Primal, I am not here to judge you but to encourage you to find what it is you need in your life, that makes you feel contented and safe, and which allows you to live life to the fullest. " More often then not, when I respond to someone, the expectation is, I belong and am committed to them after a few words." This sentence has me wondering 'why' you have that expectation. I know and can see you searching for that person who will make you feel whole, who won't judge you, and who will support you in finding that place and life you crave. So can I ask, Why do you question your own deep feelings? Are you not sure of what it is you need, or are you unsure of how your life might change once you find that person and place? I would love to know you better, to know your mind and what makes you tick. I would love to know you better than you know yourself.
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just be patient stand your ground & be you unfortunately lil boys think from their toys online & all cognitive reasoning is blown out the window! lol
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there’s a big problem here w a lotta people having multiple profiles from different locations w same pics!
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Primal before any relationship, there has to be a connection, and before that happens, you need to learn about the other person, and that can't happen in a half hour chat. They either know nothing of this life, or they are desperate, or think the sub is desperate. And you Primal don't strike me as a desperate person. Until that connection, we are just like minded people who have an interest in this lifestyle where we are free to chat as equals, albeit from different ends of the spectrum.
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Unfortunately what you suggest is very common in our community and is not exclusive to men, Dominas already warn in their profiles that they should be called Goddesses or Queens... The protocol goes to their heads immediately, a normal man does not walk into a pub and invite the first woman he sees to spend a weekend in her villa, she must first approach and socialize, this is the same . Here we all have dark and perhaps perverse fantasies and we seek to express ourselves, but first you have to get to know the person, I'm not saying in depth but know who you're dealing with... One's time is scarce and you just have to see who you share it with, good luck with that...
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Think it takes a lot more than a few chats together to get to know someone even 50%. Give it time to get to know people primal
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