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What I am. I am a submissive. I strive to be obedient and compliant to my dominant. I crave being used and I have a need to serve. I strive to please my Dominant in all things, not just sexually. This means that yes I give up some of my personal freedoms. I find this as an even trade. I try to be obedient and accept discipline when needed. I recognize that my behavior is a direct reflection of my Dominant. What I am not. First and foremost, I am not a doormat. I have feelings and needs. I do not serve apathetically or reluctantly. A real Dominant is not going to want a doormat anyway. They want someone who truly desires to be owned. Being a submissive also isn’t consenting to be abused. Unlike BDSM, abuse has no limits or safewords. Be very careful not to give your submission to just anyone. The true submission has to be earned first. There are many bad and fake Doms out there, and even predators pretending to be Doms. Take your time. BDSM Is not a race. Serving a Dominant is a very fulfilling lifestyle. However, many submissive beginners are lost. Many times they are just looking for someone to fix them, to make them feel complete. But being a submissive in a BDSM relationship is a lot of work – physically, mentally, and sexually. Being a submissive can be very stressful and lonely at times, so it’s good for us to have some type of support system. Since BDSM is still a taboo lifestyle, find friends, and mentors, and find a community that you feel comfortable with. Remember, true submission is not just a role, it is a way of life. Being submissive means we are held to a higher standard than just a vanilla partner, I find that it is all worth it.  Verily Bree |
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We are all works in progress, each and every day. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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every DOMinate is different in their own individual ways methods & kinks it’s their world you enter...make sure you have similar interests are a good fit & establish communication & trust! it’s not about harm abuse pain it’s about trust & safety in getting somebody off w kinky cravings!
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1/16/2023 11:58 pm |
My sentiments exactly.
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