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You just need to take care of the children and you are perfect...
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Debbie it all boils down to acknowledgement of the pressures each is under from go to whoa every day, and having respect for the other person. If we are talking about a dynamic of Master/slave then we need to look at whether the slave is also working outside the dynamic in real life, or is she just domestic at home with no other roles.. Basic considerations come into play with who has responsibilities and for what. Whether dominant/male or female makes no difference, it just isn't hard to pick up after yourself. That comes down to acceptance of basic tasks. What you have listed above happens in every type of life, whether that be vanilla or kink, and it usually happens because there is NO sit down at the beginning of the relationship and defining roles and acceptance of responsibilities.
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1/13/2023 2:23 am |
Arkangel, are you sure you don't want me to take out the garbage as well
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Even when married, I did the cooking, laundry and vacuuming and such. All in all it was about 50/50m in shared duties. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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it’s called servitude loyalty duty...you get love cherished treasured guidance direction focus purpose discipline pleasure punishment spoiled protection you try doing the yd work unclogging the pipe fixing things keeping cars maintained taking out trash...it’s a trade off!
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Personally, I'm not after a domestic slave. If that's what you both want, though, fine, but I feel most subs are sexually submissive, not domestically submissive.
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While having a submissive domestic slavegirl in a pleasant fantasy (i.e., someone who can cook while wearing stockings and heels and with one hand tied behand her back), in reality, I am not comfortable with being waited on at home. Also, I have never had a domestic partner who is a better instinctual cook. Also, while my partner and I both worked, for a time, I was raised with the understanding that it was a man's job to Bring Home the Cash and Take Out the Trash.
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On the other hand, some have an alternative point of view: https://youtu.be/6r8xbCc-PwQ
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I find you right, but that is a problem of coexistence between two adults, the question is why women accept this situation, if the woman lived alone she would have to do the same, of course, she would not be so desperate, that is, she would even It would be easier, but she prefers to put up with her partner than to be alone, and if things were the other way around, how long do you think the man would last in this situation in the sight of any unfair person, I think no more than 6 months and he would resolve this situation separating, leaving home or arguing every day
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Now, it is true that until 30 or 40 years ago, these rules of coexistence were accepted in our society, even from childhood we were told that men should work to provide the economic resources of the home and that women should be at home, take care of the children and take care of the husband, and that worked for centuries, but this capitalist system has developed the world so much with each year new items for the home, new toys for children and not to mention everything that computing has been, which is not enough with the husband's salary and forcing the wife to also work to financially support the home, except that it was never made clear that if she also works outside the home, the housework must be shared, and it was only taken for granted that the woman work and continue to attend to the house chores
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If this is your life and your unhappy then change it
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Did was not what happened in my relation, we worked together, he was sometimes better in the socalled women tasks... i was better in the DIY jobs... He was raised properly, by his parents/mother. no sexist chauvenistic prick, too lazy to clean up after himself.
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I am way better off keeping quite on this matter, Tal to all kajira belongs fully to Master Adomis4u2
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This behaviour is unacceptable in all but the true "domestic slave 24/7" lifestyle scenarios. I am a lazy ass and would love if that ever happened, though. #honestyismybiggestmistake When you come to a fork in the road, take it. __Yogi Berra
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My first response was funny... When I'm in a relationship I take care of helping my partner... And if you're good in the morning, I can take care of the garbage...
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1/13/2023 7:15 pm |
I realise I've opened up a can of worms  . But in a lot of cases familiarity breeds contempt.
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laughing Yes Debbie I think you have, but as to me, it all boils down to the fact you are in a partnership of life, and with that partnership you talk things out to come up with an acceptable outcome for both. A relationship is just like a bank account, in that you can only take out what you have put in, and to take MORE than that is stealing from your partner.
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I am way better off keeping quite on this matter, Tal to all Regards Always yours
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Hi Debbie...Is it still like that in a lot of places? I know it exactly describes my parents generation, ..I don't see it that way for most of my closest friends, but is it the norm for our generaation? (we are the same age)......If so..I am abnormal!!! Maybe it's because I have always been drawn to and lived with strong women where that wouldn't be tolerated!..Some have been fair and equitable relationships, others where, I confess, I was completely under their thumb in and out of the bed room..It can be exhasting!  for any sex!
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Debbie, I don't disagree with your post cause there are relationships out there exactly as you described but I'm not like that, when we were together and the kids growing up we shared ALL tasks no matter what cause we were a team. I would cook meals too(still do), dishes, washing in or out, school runs(worked an even time roster), shopping, and helped my partner with her work(small cleaning gig) but not all males are from the same mold.x
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Anyone who is in a relationship like that needs to get out. You deserve better!
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1 post 1/26/2023 11:14 pm |
What an absolute crock. Im so sick and tired of hearing these fictitious accounts of how men behave. I was married for many years….i never did any of that….nor did my father to my mother, nor my brother, nor my grandfather ….come to think of it ….not even my friends. Where is this fictitiois world? Look up the australian bureau of stats ….. both men and women, when added up work and home ….. do the same hours of work a week! I think it is 57 hours a week for both men and women.
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1/27/2023 12:04 am |
IBareYou; tell all of that to the women out there that have restraining orders broken. Who hides behind sunglasses, when did The Bureau of Statistics knock on your door what's socioeconomic sector do you come from? Are you lower class middle class or upper class? Do you have the strain of paying off a house? That was meant to be a lighthearted look. But here's the truth the more a man is under strain and stress the more likely he is to lash out. Don't you dare tell me that you haven't been to a pub and heard a man pissed as a fart whinging about his Mrs, guess who cops it when he gets home. My name is not (fictitious account). You can call me Debbie. Don't you dare quote statistics to me go to your local police station and ask how many restraining orders they have at the moment.
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