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new to this I was first introduced to bdsm from 50 shades of grey. when I read the books I was fascinated by them. so, after many google searches, I found that that's the kind of relationship I want. someone who will take control and have fun. but with this discovery came some hardships. I couldn't tell my parents or anyone cause im scared of what they will think and say to me. it also make dating hard because it was hard to find someone with the same desires in a small town. so at the age of 19 im still a virgin, never been kissed either. after moving out for university I figured why not try and find someone out there. so that's what I'm doing here, hoping to meet someone who can take control for me but still be nice. |
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Try and rely on some good information from some that have been in this a long time. Its not hard to do......just ask them. We were all new to it at one time or another.  
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look for a billionaire too, it makes the rough moments easier !
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awesome!!! Hope
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Small town life is hard. I've had to go to the closest bigger city to find my kink. Keep your wits about you. Don't let anyone do things to you that you completely, I mean completely trust. Best wishes. If you find the right one, it will be fantastic.
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2/8/2023 12:55 pm |
Its not hard to find someone to take control of you, but what is hard is to find the RIGHT one. Keep searching and talking to people and have hope, and at the same time be safe.
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Wishing you well as you explore newsubgirl
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Hello newsub I can relate to the small town problem. I don't think anyone needs to know your inner secrets and desires, especially parents or anyone else that isn't into the lifestyle. I wish you were attending college closer to where I live. I've been looking for a young girl to mentor train and take control of. You sound like an intelligent young lady, you know want and need. I'd love to chat more. Check my blog or here.
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Lmao!...50 shades of grey is a vanillaized version on bdsm not really anywhere close to real life l found it offensive disrespectful to the DOMinates! l think you should research & go to a club or munch escorted w somebody you trust & see how you fair first before diving in you can really fuK your life up w the wrong decision or choosing the wrong DOMinate to submit too!
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Lmao!...50 shades of grey is a vanillaized version on bdsm not really anywhere close to real life l found it offensive disrespectful to the DOMinates! l think you should research & go to a club or munch escorted w somebody you trust & see how you fair first before diving in you can really fuK your life up w the wrong decision or choosing the wrong DOMinate to submit too! Denton is a large area. Right next to Dallas and Ft Worth.....be very careful. Use to be some clubs in Denton area but that was years ago when I was up there. Most likely torn down and apts and condos there now.
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Welcome to the blogs. best to you. Don't tell anyone your likes & dislikes, fantasy, limits and desires. Have them tell you their experience, preferences, opinions, observations and such. Ask open ended questions. Or, they will parrot back what you hope to hear. I would avoid anyone claiming to be a so called mentor, trainer, or dom of doms or any such inflated egoistic terms. Many are going to tell you what to do right off. They are mostly concerned about getting into your panties or in some cases looking to beat the hell out of you. Learn all you can about safety before you jump into any sort of relationship or real time play. You do the selection of who you will interact. On line role play and erotic stories are not like real life interactions. Be patient ...take your time to get to know people, to know what you want and what is all out there. Again, best to you in your efforts. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Newsubgirl, welcome to this lifestyle, but I have to tell you, THIS life is very different to that 50 Shades of Shit that was circulated around the population. I also have to warn you, that THIS life does have some very real dangers to it, both physically and psychologically. If you select the wrong partner, you can have your self esteem destroyed, along with your body and mind, so at your tender age, YOU DON'T need that, so I urge you to go very slow and DO NOT rush into anything. Everyone is SPECIAL in their own way, and that includes you, even with your limited experience. Before exploring this life, I would suggest you explore and experience your own sexuality first. I am going to put it in blunt terms. Go out and get yourself a bf or 2 and practice fucking and learning about what you like sexually and what turns you on. BDSM is different to kinky fucking and does NOT necessarily involve sex, although it 80% of the time includes fucking. You are young, so get onto contraception, and make any bastard that wants you, work hard for the privilege, build trust and leave the kink aside for just a little while. I would also suggest that you actually research the kinky lifestyle by doing more than just watching porn. Porn is a fantasy world and DOES NOT show you or explain to you what happens in reality. If you ever want to chat, you can contact me through my private mail box in my blog. Only you and I will ever see whatever you write. I would suggest that YOU create a private mail box in your blog..
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You can click on any members "View My Blog" button and see if they have a private mail box setup. As NoNonsense_Dom said I would suggest that YOU create a private mail box in your blog.
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It is clear that you need someone to advise you because there are many points in your comment that deserve to be dealt with in depth...
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Ill help you
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Above all find a Dom you can Trust..wothout Trust you have nothing Find a patient Dom to take you on who values you for who and what you are..who will nurture ..mentor..train..be guardian to you and bring out the best in you and make you a better person in life at your pace...you can always say No..dont be forced into anything your uncomfortable with..
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