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Friends815 62F
961 posts
4/24/2023 8:07 am
Can a slave also be primal and/or prey?



Lately, I have become aware of some things inside me. I've always been very playful. But I like to tease and run too. Is it possible to be primal and/or prey and still be a slave? For awhile, it seemed to contradict the slave mindset. But the more I think on it, the more I'm convinced I need to ask all of you, Doms, subs, slaves or Masters, Please chime in.

And also, could the slave mindset be maintained and primal/or prey play, be incorporated into the M/s relationship. Still maintaining obedience until the time for the other is set?

Thanks you all.
Debra

Friends815 62F
620 posts
4/25/2023 9:33 am

    Quoting mistress_black_d:
    I think the overly simple but 100% accurate answer is yes.

    We have changing needs that must be aligned to get all we can out of each interaction.

    I am absolutely a meat lover at a BBQ; but you can melt my heart with a good vegetarian curry.

    You do what you need, as you need it in conjunction to the partner(s) you choose to be there at any point in time. The moment you stop, is the moment you cease to be true to yourself.

    Play hard, and have fun.
Oh Wow. Thank You so much. Your words move me and I agree 100%. Debra


mistress_black_d 60F
184 posts
4/25/2023 6:17 am

I think the overly simple but 100% accurate answer is yes.

We have changing needs that must be aligned to get all we can out of each interaction.

I am absolutely a meat lover at a BBQ; but you can melt my heart with a good vegetarian curry.

You do what you need, as you need it in conjunction to the partner(s) you choose to be there at any point in time. The moment you stop, is the moment you cease to be true to yourself.

Play hard, and have fun.


Friends815 62F
620 posts
4/24/2023 3:02 pm

    Quoting bdsmDOMdaddy:
    as you evolve you become aware of & enjoy other dynamics so it is possible to mix a variety of things into your submissiveness as well D/s dynamic you share w your DOMinate!
    there is no real proper way as everybody’s dynamics kinks are different whats proper is what works for your D/s dynamic & nobody else’s!
Exactly. Each are unique. No 2 are the same. That's why it's so beautiful. Thank You. So nice to see You commenting and helping. Hugs


bdsmDOMdaddy 61M
4163 posts
4/24/2023 2:45 pm

as you evolve you become aware of & enjoy other dynamics so it is possible to mix a variety of things into your submissiveness as well D/s dynamic you share w your DOMinate!
there is no real proper way as everybody’s dynamics kinks are different whats proper is what works for your D/s dynamic & nobody else’s!


Friends815 62F
620 posts
4/24/2023 11:02 am

    Quoting uncommon1:
    When you unwrap a soul that
    has demons in the corners
    you never know what you
    will find. But I promise it won't
    be something that fits within
    a known title or description.
    Those demons you kept secret,
    an hidden for all those years,
    didn't hide quietly, they lifted
    weights, got restless and now
    they are the predator and you
    have been their prey your whole
    life. You can run, they will chase.
    They will teach you harmony, for
    your contradictions.

Thank You. I will think on Your words.


Friends815 62F
620 posts
4/24/2023 11:01 am

    Quoting whiteforbbc:
    sounds to me more like a dedicated fun loving submissive that leans toward slave
Thank you! Hugs


Friends815 62F
620 posts
4/24/2023 11:01 am

    Quoting RobertBishop:
    Yes, I think it can. After all, watching the subgirl get in touch with her primal instincts is a window into another part of her sexuality that might have otherwise remained hidden. I would think that it also creates another excuse to interrogate her regularly and to keep her in bondage in order to remind her who her sexuality belongs to.
Yes I agree. Thank You


uncommon1 66M  
1438 posts
4/24/2023 10:36 am

When you unwrap a soul that
has demons in the corners
you never know what you
will find. But I promise it won't
be something that fits within
a known title or description.
Those demons you kept secret,
an hidden for all those years,
didn't hide quietly, they lifted
weights, got restless and now
they are the predator and you
have been their prey your whole
life. You can run, they will chase.
They will teach you harmony, for
your contradictions.


whiteforbbc 42F  

4/24/2023 9:29 am

sounds to me more like a dedicated fun loving submissive that leans toward slave


RobertBishop 66M  
2145 posts
4/24/2023 9:00 am

Yes, I think it can. After all, watching the subgirl get in touch with her primal instincts is a window into another part of her sexuality that might have otherwise remained hidden. I would think that it also creates another excuse to interrogate her regularly and to keep her in bondage in order to remind her who her sexuality belongs to.


Friends815 62F
620 posts
4/24/2023 8:09 am

A question



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