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Submission mistakes  I think back to my early days as a new submissive. Boy, some of the things I did because I wasn’t educated. Educated about submission or about finding the proper Master. I couldn’t see the warning signs in choosing. I immediately submitted online. Big No no! Never submit online! Never give your password away to your profile. Trust is key in the beginning! Also tell someone when u are meeting a potential Dom or Master. If there are any submissive or slaves who need help with anything, please let me know. You can message me and I will keep it confidential. My brothers and sisters in the lifestyle, you are beautiful people. If you wouldn’t go to a strangers house in the vanilla life then don’t do it in bdsm. Always meet in public place when first meeting. Cherish your submission. You are givers. Watch out for takers. Wanting you to call them Master or Sir right away, beware. They must show you they are worthy of calling them that. And we must be worthy in their eyes to call them that. Much meaning and trust initiates those titles. One more thing. Once you gain the knowledge pass it on! Be safe! Love you all. Debra |
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I love this post.....  .. well done!
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4/30/2023 6:44 am |
I love this post....... well done!
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only thru experience do we gain knowledge wisdom perspective...trial & error live & learn everybody gets burned! never submit to anyone online til after you’ve met in person & know the person spent quality time w them in the flesh SSC!
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My question as a Master is. I have talked with a dozen possible submissives, everything go well for awhile. We share what is expected from Master and share and discuss limits of the sub. Then it never fails to happen, after some conversation, everyone I have talked with has some kind of issue and wants money. Never knew there was so many cell phone issues and asking for money, 150 for new phone. I even had one ask for money to by tampons. So where is the trust with subs wanting a master or dom? Master Bob
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There are no subs or slaves who want money. 99% of the time it's men who want to cheat. A sub knows exactly what she is entitled to and what is expected of her. Also with ALT. com is repeatedly advised never to send money.
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Very good advice, good to know......Trust is the beginning of everything
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4/29/2023 12:59 pm |
There are no subs or slaves who want money. 99% of the time it's men who want to cheat. A sub knows exactly what she is entitled to and what is expected of her. Also with ALT. com is repeatedly advised never to send money.
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My question as a Master is. I have talked with a dozen possible submissives, everything go well for awhile. We share what is expected from Master and share and discuss limits of the sub. Then it never fails to happen, after some conversation, everyone I have talked with has some kind of issue and wants money. Never knew there was so many cell phone issues and asking for money, 150 for new phone. I even had one ask for money to by tampons. So where is the trust with subs wanting a master or dom? Master Bob
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very good advice Trust has to be earned
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A good Dom or Master is patient and understanding and knows to let the Sub/Slave take as much time as she needs to decide to proceed or not. This patience and understanding must then continue (and be a critical part) of the relationship after it is entered into.
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Me too honey. It sucks.
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A good Dom or Master is patient and understanding and knows to let the Sub/Slave take as much time as she needs to decide to proceed or not. This patience and understanding must then continue (and be a critical part) of the relationship after it is entered into.
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only thru experience do we gain knowledge wisdom perspective...trial & error live & learn everybody gets burned! never submit to anyone online til after you’ve met in person & know the person spent quality time w them in the flesh SSC!
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very good advice Trust has to be earned
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Never send money!
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