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Compromises in the climate relationship Both dominant and submissive people, looking for someone suitable for themselves, have more or less precise and crystallized expectations and requirements. Whether it is to the appearance or character of this person, or to how he understands the climate, what practices in it he is willing to use and what limits he has. Naturally, it is extremely rare to meet someone who almost exactly matches our ideas, which gives us the opportunity to enter into a relationship without changing anything. If we find the right (or seem to be right) person and create a climatic relationship with them, it may turn out that we do not feel what we should, that it is not as we assumed, we do not experience what we wanted. And here two questions arise: how far should we compromise on choosing the right person for the relationship, and should we compromise on the relationship and its content once we decide on it or even when we are already in it? |
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The basic values and interactive desires need to basically match. Major compromise, even if not forced, can lead to long term dissatisfaction. Possibly about a 20% deviation of such basics may be compatible if both are flexible. But usually it is best to match about 85-95 %. No one is 100 % or we woudl likely bore each other. Welcome to the blogs. best to you. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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w so much diversity finding the right bdsm match partner that’s into same kinks wants same things is a long frustrating process! compromise is essential in relationships but never compromise on your beliefs wants needs interests values morals ethics or yourself!
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4/5/2023 9:29 am |
My beliefs, needs, values, morals are sacred. That is why I am looking for a person who will confess them with me, or at least accept them. I will then reciprocate the same.
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I would prefer adapting and evolving with a potential match instead of compromising
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4/5/2023 10:07 am |
I agree but that usually come later.
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That is how it starts
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I dont think I have ever been in a relationship where I 100% aligned with my partner. To be honest; it sounds frankly very dull. To me what makes a relationship fun is that give and take; understanding what works what doesnt but from a position of mutual respect. If we cannot do that, then there is not a hope in hell that I am going to be playing intimately with you. Loving your blog, thanks for your posts.
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