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Should I…? Recently, in a group, the topic was raised, is it normal that when talking to a stranger for a while on the Internet, you have to send naked photos of yourself ... Why would I do that? Because he did, and that will be a test of whether I'm submissive? Such practices are supposedly normal for ... taking out nude photos and pretending to be dominant for this purpose. If they come across a completely beginner in the climate, taking her first steps, a woman who does not know what can and cannot do, unaware of the beginnings of such relationships, it is very easy to be manipulated by such a guy. Guys of this type try to exert pressure, try to undermine my belief in their nature, e.g. by criticizing my lack of obedience to the interlocutor or undermining my climatic side of character. |
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I think you have the right attitude questioning this type of behaviour. It is not as it should be, it is on the contrary a toxic, narcistic type of attitude. It is not the normal way of acting , quite the opposite. So don't feel bad about it, it is a normal behaviour coming from the essential way of protecting ourselves against mental or physical aggression.
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the sub is in complete control until the moment they submit...anyone that doesn’t know that is a manipulative wannabe that should be avoided at all cost!
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you are so right girl keep to what you believe is right. never ever let anyone talk you into anything you don't want to do
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4/6/2023 2:43 pm |
only send naked pics if you want to and only to someone you trust so maybe that would mean not at all on here unless you've met the other party in real life.
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I think you are quite right to be careful & not send nude photos to strangers. If he claims you can't be submissive if you won't comply with his demands, then he isn't a true Dom. He is just some wanna be, claiming to be a Dom to get what he wants & to get you to act as he says. Submission is a gift, & it isn't his or anyone else's until you decide to give it. A true Dom would be prepared to discuss things over time & let you decide if he is the one you wish to give it to. As others have said only send photos to someone if you trust them & that takes time. Someone genuine will give you that time.
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seems like the answer for them is - submission is a gift bestowed on someone who has earned trust. You'll know when it's time.
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I fear that for many, the exchange of nude pics is a prelude to a form of black mail. Do as I say *or* I will share your pics. The part i would challenge any and all subs to consider is; *why* am I being asked to shared those pics? Does it feel natural, sexy, exciting or do you feel pressured? Then compare it to any other sex acts; if you were being told to give head to someone else by that same Dom, would it make you engaged by? Attracted to? Supported or protected by that person. Or do you feel it would be a "bargaining" chip used against you forever more? Like most of us here, I do like to see erotic, intimate or exciting pics, however I know I have no right to demand them. Each and everyone one shared is a gift and I hope my comments, like and encouragement is identifiable as gratitude to the gift from those subs / slaves. Short answer: never share nudes because you are told to, only because you want to.
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You should not feel pressured to do anything like that. Should you be in the situation, or relationship where you feel that you would like to; then that is a very different proposition. All about consent, you should not feel coerced into anything.
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