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Random thoughts on ALT & Scenes & Me Given - this is a sex site. Caveat - it is primarily a virtual, pretend, fantasy sex site. There might be people who meet and form relationships here - somem of which are deep and profound - that carry into real life, but I’ll bet that is a very small number. Most of us - and including myself - are here to fulfill a fantasy (or several) - in a community of similarly inclined people. We all understand the basic dynamics which vary only subtly from interest group to interest group: the man dominates and the woman submits. Some of the submission is gentle, but often it is not, but it is always done with a mutual understanding by both people. And what happens during these “scenes”? It is a lot like call and response. Each person has a set of statements and<b> responses </font></b>that they are comfortable using.Sometimes, one partner or the other is inspired to go “off-script” and be spontaneously creative and responsive. Those are the best moments. And in the background? Well, I tend to listen to Beethoven while typing. And after the scene? I, for one, read or play or listen to music, or whatever else is part of my non-Alt life. My scenes tend to take a long time and can go over multiple days if my partner agrees but usually not. I don’t like to rush. I am not a fan of wham, bam, thank you, maam. I am patient. I listen to my partner - or try to - and attempt to lead us in a way that will result in us both enjoying the fantasy. But that’s me and my style and is not for everyone. But that's the beauty of this fantasyland. We can be who we want and behave as we want and, unless something odd happens, there are no consequences in real life, and few on Alt. |
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