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NoNonsenseFromU 74M  
67 posts
3/30/2024 7:22 am

Last Read:
4/28/2024 5:53 am

Dom(mes) and Subs - Convergent paths or parallel


My Opinion Only:

I read often of Subs bemoaning the absence of ethical and honest Dom(mes) and Dom(mes) with the same feeling. I think, in fact, there are plenty of both here. But I also think we move along parallel and not convergent paths. There are no doubt many reasons for this. It is not that we are looking for a Dom(me) or Sub - we are looking for *our* Dom(me) or Sub. And I am not differentiating here between potential Partner or playmates.

I don't have an answer. But I am sure it is frustrating for all the reputable folks here to get tainted by those who are not. And that is sad, because it means connections - and possibly good and important ones - are missed - and in this community (any community) connections are the (a) glue that holds it together.

Momokatze 50F
23 posts
3/31/2024 4:33 am

Yes .... I found it funny how those I talked to did not know any others. What I mean is. I was a sub looking for a Dom. And all the Doms in talked to did not know of each other . (There are always some who are very observant) and they all warned me of the others. For the most part. If they didn't warn me. They really weren't a Dom.
But it was like being in a room full of people all like each other but not talking amongst themselves. Only to me. So I changed my profile to say open to everyone and everything. Just to meet those like myself and find out what they like and who they have met. I wonder what it would be like if Doms around here really talked to each other.
I mean more than just appreciating each others blog or posted photos. Like really talked.
They would be able to share more info about all the subs running around here for one thing. lol.



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