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MsJacqueline2 73M/74F
5 posts
7/11/2023 9:34 am
Is anyone really out ther in Myrtle Beach


My husband and I have decided to become an FLR couple and learn more about the BDSM world to engage with others. Now matter how many times we try we can't find any legit venues or clubs in the area to meet with others and when we try to meet with individuals or couples they just disappear, don't show up at the rendezvous points and are never heard from again.

We'd love to meet any chat to learn more about the life style and see what happens from there with anyone else in the same boat in the Grand Strand Area. Let us know any thoughts or perspectives whether your local or not. Its hard to start in these endeavors in a post Covid world.

alwaysassertive 64M

7/15/2023 10:00 pm

I think only about 10% of the people here are really into bdsm. Most are only interested in kinky sex and don't have a clue what this lifestyle is about because the've never read anything on the subject. They make things up as they go along and call it bdsm.

Generally most people are too lazy and want to be spoon fed by a video rather than read, or they are scammers wanting to separate you from your money. Some people here are the real thing. The rest are only playing out a fantasy in an attempt to validate their meager existence. The latter run away when they finally realize the fantasy the've been playing can actually come to life. Their biggest fear is that they will be discovered to be a fake.

Take your time and get to know people and you'll find someone. write in your blog everyday and you'll be noticed.

I used to follow serval blogs and have been banned from plenty because I wont provide excessive admiration and flattery like the wanna bees and the simps trying to score some pussy.

This has been a life long learning endeavor for me. At least to some degree. I've always been dominant, but lacked the basic understand and knowledge in the beginning,

Just stay confident and believe in yourself. Oh, and remember to keep writing your blog everyday...peace out..


MsJacqueline2 replies on 8/23/2023 8:49 am:
Thanks for the encouragement. I hear that before COVID there was lots of activity and get togethers. I have heard about munches and groups here but they seem to have evaporated. It's Especially hard to find people our age with enough curiousity and will to meet and share taboos.

SxyKitten 69F
3 posts
8/21/2023 7:28 am

m real but im in orange park fl ..to bad we arent closer i prefer people closer to my age..


MsJacqueline2 73M/74F
81 posts
8/23/2023 8:46 am

We too like people closer to out age. especially ones that like to take charge like I do. I love to watch and use/abuse subhub or let others take the reins and do to him as they see fit or have them serve their needs. I love to watch him clean up after a scene!


MsJacqueline2 73M/74F
81 posts
8/23/2023 8:55 am

We're still here and looking at lots of places to meet and greet like minded others but no luck with happy hours, dinner clubs, hotel bars and the other obvious places we thought of but not giving up. Would love to meet others with more experience to give us some clues on the best direction to take. We are older and not getting any younger so time is limited for learning and acting on taboos we both enjoy.



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