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Experience On Alt.com and doing our part to make it better. This is not a review, the site structure is good and fairly easy to navigate. There is the review. What I have found as a man on Alt. First don’t blame the site for the people on it. Alt like any other business is out to make money I do wish they did a better job of investigating people with multiple accounts that abuse the site. Since they do not you have to vet everyone. There are a lot and I mean a lot of scammers on the site. Membership status doesn’t mean much so you will want to do some vetting. Get used to reading profiles because pictures don’t tell you much. I don’t post pictures of myself or my wife on line. I’m a private person and like my privacy so I share pictures in conversations. Vetting pictures: If you find a picture you want to vet you can use an image search engine. You looking for the same picture on multiple sites. If you do that usually means it’s a stollen picture and not a picture of the person with the profile. Both on site and in conversations compare pictures and search them. I was speaking with someone on discord and she sent a couple of pictures over. I noticed that in one she had tattoos and in the other she didn’t. I asked her to snap a picture of the tattoo and she lost it telling me I hadn’t sent her many pictures, since I’m not out to trade pictures I’m here to get to know people and possibly meet some day. I explained that I was making sure she was real and guess what? She never wrote me again. I’ve been on and off the site several times and each time I join I will get a lot of messages then they die off about the end of the second week. Types of messages that through a red flag for me are: I’m in the area and would like to hook up. (Usually someone looking for money to meet if you know what I mean) Assumption messages that clearly state things that are not in or the opposite of you profile. (Means there not reading your profile and have only their own interest in mind.) Do not give out your personal information or phone number until you have vetted the person and you’re truly comfortable with them. I recommend a chat program like discord or telegram to have private conversations I also recommend you have a private<b> email </font></b>specifically to communicate with people you don’t know like a proton account. It’s usually the assumption that men are on these sites because they are desperate. Nefarious people will try to take advantage of that. Yes, there are desperate people on all sides so don’t make yourself an easy target by actually bringing your desperation to a site like this. Teaming up with others. Say you find someone you get a long with on line but they are not the right person for you. You can still team up. Submissives are usually the target because they are submissive and can be more acquiescent. Having an online Dom can help you vet people if you don’t have the strength to do it yourself or say no when you need to. Most people are not sociopaths but they are out there. They are extremely patient and don’t mind playing games to get inside your boundaries. Then there are narcissist who believe everyone is out to benefit them. While Dom/mees are expecting to be served they shouldn’t be willing to destroy you to get what they want. In the end if we vet people properly and they get tossed to the side enough they will stop targeting the community for their scams and fake accounts which usually lead to some kind of scam. Stay safe and be smart. Also don't get offended if you get vetted you should be. |
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