Blog : things unsaid (blind trust)

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11/22/2023 9:31 am

things unsaid (blind trust)

So many of us are afraid to truly express ourselves not only to our partners, but our playmates. When we meet someone new, we give them our trust instead of making them earn our trust. This community, and so many others, it is so important for us to trust. We are literally putting ourselves out there naked for all to see, we are also putting our safety in the hands of a stranger.

Couples don't really have to worry about the latter, but singles have to (or should) be more cautious of simply giving their "blind trust" to the masses, so, let's talk about BLIND TRUST:

Trust is one of the building blocks of society. It is the most ordinary thing that exists to carry out interpersonal relationships, trade, business, medical, and legal interactions. Without trust, no interaction or work is possible between human beings. Blind trust can allow us to deal with things easily, but it could break our confidence and mental peace in life on so many levels.

It is a core aspect of human relationships that binds us together like glue. Whether in terms of personal connection, professional level, or at the level of society trust is a belief that makes anything reliable alongside honesty where the basic connections in everyday life.
But what happens when there is trust in the name of blind faith?

Defining Blind Trust

Blind trust means when someone completely has faith or completely trusts someone or something without a doubt or question. It is like walking into a bridge without knowing whether it is strong enough to hold us. In personal relationships, blind trust could mean believing a person’s words or intentions without hesitation. Even if there is a chance that someone could be not truthful, we choose to ignore it. In terms of society, trust means ideas, rules, beliefs, and systems that we accept without questioning their authenticity.

Why Blind Trust is appealing?

We all must have gone through an incident at some point in our lives where we start questioning the reality of this world and the people around us. It must have occurred because something or someone’s actions made us rethink the question of trust or blind trust we used to have has now changed.

Trusting others blindly can be easy because it makes our lives simpler without thinking. It could make do things without worrying about what is going to happen in life. It makes us feel safe and secure that someone has our back, or care with whom we can share every single detail of our lives. And, it is similar to walking with our eyes closed and trying to reach somewhere on our own.

Exploring the Cost of Blind Trust:
The path of putting blind trust is not free of obstacles and its effects can be huge on a person’s emotional and mental well-being.

1. Emotional Vulnerability:
Trusting others blindly can make emotionally vulnerable to them. It means sharing all our feelings with others out of trust could leave us feeling misused or betrayed in the name of truth. Blind faith could lead to developing negative emotions in people such as anger, guilt regret, and disappointment. All these negative emotions could impact our well-being like a wound.

2. Ignoring visible cues:
Trusting someone blindly can make us ignore things that are not right. To the extent, if trusting the other person we choose to ignore to look at the clear warning signs visible to our eye. In the case of a relationship, managing a business and ignoring small things can make us make the wrong decisions, and we could end up blaming ourselves for our actions.

3. Reduced control of one’s life:
Depending entirely on somebody else for our well-being might not be a good option. It can reduce our self-esteem and self-respect and make us dependent on other emotional acceptance. It is important that we are the master of our lives and emotions and cannot let others or depend on others to make choices for us.

4. Lack of Growth:
Blind trust could cause us to emotionally withdraw ourselves from work, relationships, and everyday activities. We feel so down in life that it stops us from growing in life and being productive.
Balancing between Trust and Growth
To maintain personal and professional relationships, trust is important for human growth and harmony. Therefore, to maintain our well overall well-being we need to balance trust growth, and empowerment. Having a strong sense of self-awareness is necessary for thinking rationally about things.

1) Be a Critical Thinker:
One should develop our mind in such a way so we can evaluate the situation, people, and ideas critically. Even though there exists a tiny amount of doubt one should always ask questions and ask for proof or evidence.

2) Set, Clear Boundaries:
There is no relationship, be it personal or professional that could be built without trust, Trust is the key to a healthy relationship. In relationships, it is necessary to form boundaries that ensure that trust is there from both sides. Creating boundaries would allow us to be consistent with our actions and allow us to reflect on our thinking and behavior and how it could affect others around us. Effective communication is important in every relationship so that trust can be built.

3) Have trust in yourself:

In building trust in someone, it is important to trust yourself and your instincts. Your values and beliefs are important for making the right decision in life which ensures that you are in charge in your life.
4) Open Communication:
Communication allows us to share our feelings, and our ideas with other people. In building trust, communication matters a lot, it helps us to clear our doubts or concerns about something. It ensures that everything is clear without a doubt.

Trust is a significant essence of life in maintaining relationships with others and society. Whether forming relationships, friendships, or business trust is the building block of a society. However, Trust is crucial in interaction and it is important to avoid trusting others blindly. It is good to be confident and generous about your feelings balancing between reality and minding our emotions is necessary. Thinking wisely before trusting others helps us make good and right decisions according to the situations and helps build meaningful relations with others. Life is a complex sphere and it’s important to adopt measures and mentality that combine the power or trust and growth as an individual.

So, being new to this community (but not others), I am guilty of giving men and women my unadulterated trust, or Blind trust and I consider myself lucky because at my age (and considering I've been a part of communities) since I was 14, I've only had a few bad experiences. But these experiences have taught me so much about myself, that I really can't complain all that much....Jon


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