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ActualizedDom 61M
24 posts
12/2/2023 5:48 pm
Wait A Minute Now !!!

Wait A Minute Now

Waiting to have sex can deepen intimacy between partners as it allows them to build emotional connection, trust, and communication skills before engaging in a physical relationship. By holding off on sex, couples have the opportunity to explore and understand each other on a deeper level, focusing on emotional and intellectual compatibility rather than purely physical attraction. This process of getting to know each other's values, goals, and dreams can foster a stronger bond and ultimately lead to a more fulfilling and meaningful intimate relationship. It also allows couples to develop a solid foundation of mutual respect, commitment, and shared values, which can enhance long-term compatibility and relationship satisfaction.

Overall research findings strongly suggest that a majority of both men and women are motivated to engage in hookups but often desire a more romantic relationship. This is consistent with a more nuanced evolutionary biopsychosocial perspective that takes into account the social context and the cross-cultural and biological centrality of the pair bond (Fisher, 1992; Jankowiak & Fischer, 1992; Pedersen et al., 2011; Gray & Garcia, 2013).

Hookups, although increasingly socially acceptable, may leave more "strings" than public discourse would suggest.

References
Sexual Hookup Culture: A Review: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3613286/#R76
Fisher ML, Worth K, Garcia JR, Meredith T. Feelings of regret following uncommitted sexual encounters in Canadian university students. Culture, Health & Sexuality. 2012;14:45–57. doi: 10.1080/13691058.2011.619579
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22077716/
Jankowiak WR, Fischer EF. A cross-cultural perspective on romantic love. Ethnology. 1992;31:149–155. doi: 10.2307/3773618
https://www.jstor.org/stable/3773618?origin=crossref


ActualizedDom 61M

12/2/2023 5:49 pm

true


bikerforslut 64M
329 posts
12/2/2023 6:30 pm

Yep sex is only part of a good strong relationship. It takes many aspects to make it work long term. As I get older quickly hook ups seem less appealing. The build up can be very erotic indeed.


BoundSissy2013 51T  
256 posts
12/2/2023 6:39 pm

that is funny stuff. i am guessing you would like to marry a virgin (or someone with no more than one or two partners but at the same time you would like to have sex multiple women/ partners pre marriage.

Love is love and sex is sex.

One night stands can lead to great relationships or be just one night. Where each of you is in life is the bigger part in this.

Just going on a first date with someone will give you similar results. One person thought it was great the other thought it was terrible.

Waiting to have sex, waiting to have the second or third date...time and place and where one is in life...oh and can you support me and my lifestyle.

Hope


Manifestor444 54F
1 post
12/3/2023 1:24 pm

Wow... this was AWESOME... Thanks for stating what some of us were thinking. Not to be prudes, but those of us that are desiring a LTR/committed relationship often get overlooked because we don't do hookups as they are counter-intuitive to our goals of securing a deeper, committed relationship with a solo partner for the long run. Great job!


ActualizedDom 61M

12/3/2023 7:20 pm

    Quoting BoundSissy2013:
    that is funny stuff. i am guessing you would like to marry a virgin (or someone with no more than one or two partners but at the same time you would like to have sex multiple women/ partners pre marriage.

    Love is love and sex is sex.

    One night stands can lead to great relationships or be just one night. Where each of you is in life is the bigger part in this.

    Just going on a first date with someone will give you similar results. One person thought it was great the other thought it was terrible.

    Waiting to have sex, waiting to have the second or third date...time and place and where one is in life...oh and can you support me and my lifestyle.
Thaks for reading my post andtaking the time to reply I am glad you got a good laugh. I am not sure what is funnier the original post or you comment?

Thanks again


ActualizedDom 61M

12/3/2023 7:21 pm

    Quoting Manifestor444:
    Wow... this was AWESOME... Thanks for stating what some of us were thinking. Not to be prudes, but those of us that are desiring a LTR/committed relationship often get overlooked because we don't do hookups as they are counter-intuitive to our goals of securing a deeper, committed relationship with a solo partner for the long run. Great job!
you are welcome and thank you for your thoughtful comment



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