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tonyisbi1212 63M
90 posts
1/31/2024 6:25 am
ALT improvements

So the overwehlming opinion is that ALT has gotten worse. Keeping in mind that ALT is in the business of making money I thought I would ask what do you think can be done to improve the site?
Re-instate 10 free IMs per day
Allow friend requests
Allow viewing full profiles
Re-instate free temporary gold memberships for active users
Nothing - it's a lost cause
Other (please put in comments)


tonyisbi1212 63M

1/31/2024 6:26 am

Let's see what ideas are out there for improving this site


pzkw 63M  
1264 posts
1/31/2024 7:49 am

I think there are 2 things Alt could do to make the site better: charge one price to all, but that price gives access to everything (and non-paying members can't create a profile); and fix their search filters - I usually use a 50 mile distance limit on my sesarches, but I usually get results from people thousands of miles away.


uncommon1 66M  
1405 posts
1/31/2024 8:40 am

everything you mentioned
enhances "free" memberships.
How exactly does that improve
Alts business model??

How about they don't allow
deadbeat, wannabe free members
and make the website cost more
so that only those truly interested
a BDSM join?? That improves their
business model an their reputation.


tonyisbi1212 63M

1/31/2024 9:00 am

    Quoting uncommon1:
    everything you mentioned
    enhances "free" memberships.
    How exactly does that improve
    Alts business model??

    How about they don't allow
    deadbeat, wannabe free members
    and make the website cost more
    so that only those truly interested
    a BDSM join?? That improves their
    business model an their reputation.
Valid questions. As with a lot of sites you need to dangle a carrot to get people to pay for the full benefits. It is a tough balance for any site....give too much and you can't sustain because they aren't making enough, give too little and they don't have the volume they require to be a good site to sell ads or to entice new paying members.


switchtobottom 61M  
17 posts
1/31/2024 9:36 am

Alt (and all other dating sites) should verify location on profiles. This could help allieviate third world country scammers.


marshamay 35F
5964 posts
1/31/2024 9:56 am

A mute button


Coprolite 73M
30 posts
1/31/2024 11:22 am

"Deadbeat free members"... posted by a free member LOLOL


Coprolite 73M
30 posts
1/31/2024 11:30 am

How can they improve the site? FIX IT! Even if you pay for Gold there are so many broken features that there is NO WAY you can justify the cost.


uncommon1 66M  
1405 posts
1/31/2024 11:33 am

"Deadbeat free members"... posted by a free member LOLOL

I am not a free member moron.


A mute button

You select what you view and
what blogs you read. Don't like
them go elsewhere and make
better choices next time. It isn't
Alt's job to spoonfed you.

If Alt truly wants to be a website
for alternative, sexual, perversive
people, isn't that the carrot to dangle
instead of free membership.


Coprolite 73M
30 posts
1/31/2024 1:14 pm

Then explain to me that if I look at your profile there is no gold crown like every other gold member I look at.


uncommon1 66M  
1405 posts
1/31/2024 3:17 pm

Then explain to me that if I look at your profile there is no gold crown like every other gold member I look at.


My membership is none of
your business. But if you don't
know the levels of membership
on Alt then don't assume to
know who is an who isn't a paid
member.


Dave54321 61M
2711 posts
1/31/2024 4:48 pm

It may be a lost cause, because they don't seem very interested in
making improvements. However, I'd like to see them try!

If you remember there was some dispute over what a paid membership
actually gave you.

So step one: Clearly set out what paid membership actually gets you.

Women seeking men:
Free membership. Can reply to any messages they receive. Make it a condition
that they must reply to all messages within say 5 days of them logging in, after
the message is received. As they may be receiving lots of messages, give them
a quick reply button. Click a button on the incoming message which sends back
to the sender something like; "Thanks for your message, but not what I am looking
for. Thanks for your interest anyway." That way this gives them more time to reply
to the messages that actually interest them. Those sending messages at least get
a reply, even if it's not what they where hoping for!

Men; Couples; Women seeking Women:
(Also Women seeking men; who want to be able to make first contact
Give them a one month trial, where they can look around, check the site out & can
reply to any messages they receive. Once the trial period is over they need to take
out a low cost membership to continue being able to reply. Only one trail period
allowed.
To be able to make the first approach there would be a higher cost membership.
Anyone on the higher cost membership would of course also be able to reply to
anyone that sent them a message.

They should kick the scammers off the site. Last time we discussed this, someone
said they do, if you report them. To be fair when I've reported people who contact me,
they do seem to disappear. So maybe he was right & we should all report more.

Not knowing the costs of running the operation, it's difficult to say what the prices
should be. But obviously the more numbers using the site the lower you can set the
prices. If people found they could actually make contact & meet the sort of people they
are interested in, that would make the site more popular.

Obviously the free membership for women seeking men, is the big carrot to get men to
pay. Everyone else, after their one month trial is paying something.
So say $10 for three months to be able to reply to all messages.
$30 for three months to be able to send messages & reply.

I would have thought a lot more people would be prepared to pay, if the site worked.
From what the bloggers say there is very little sign that there is much meeting going on
through this site.


1benquick 71M
576 posts
1/31/2024 8:33 pm

I could care less about the free members, as long as the site is checking to be sure the info is accurate. I'm sick of the SCAMMERS/FAKES, and the Dommes/Mistresses/Dominatrix that send you an inviting message and then proceed to demand that you go off-site to communicate with them and all the BS they spew about 'tributes', 'first session supplies, dungeon rent, etc, before you even physically MEET. I've reported several in the last several weeks and still see their profiles active on here...Also, profile that haven't been 'ACTIVE' where the person hasn't signed in for more than three months should be EXPUNGED, PERIOD.


marshamay 35F
5964 posts
1/31/2024 8:42 pm

    Quoting uncommon1:
    "Deadbeat free members"... posted by a free member LOLOL

    I am not a free member moron.

    A mute button

    You select what you view and
    what blogs you read. Don't like
    them go elsewhere and make
    better choices next time. It isn't
    Alt's job to spoonfed you.

    If Alt truly wants to be a website
    for alternative, sexual, perversive
    people, isn't that the carrot to dangle
    instead of free membership.
You'd be no 1


meltwill2 72M  
3787 posts
1/31/2024 10:39 pm

    Quoting Coprolite:
    Then explain to me that if I look at your profile there is no gold crown like every other gold member I look at.
All you are ever going to get out of them is double talk.....over and over and over to ad nauseam......they would rather climb a tree and tell a lie than stand on the ground in front of you and tell the truth......they have a little clique and rub each others body parts everyday......


sjbound4fun 59M/56F
39 posts
2/1/2024 6:22 am

Maybe not censor post replies that point out some of the obvious fraud going on around here? LOL


Crankytoyou 71M
711 posts
2/1/2024 11:20 am

I think the return of points would be a good start. They did encourage more activity, on the blogs, especially. The former ownerand founder did some good improvements on the friend finder site which he promised were coming here, but it seems e got sidtracked.


SadisticDegrader 57M  
2 posts
2/2/2024 1:22 pm

Fix IM system so it does not lock up

I am a gold member and have had it
lock up on me, once in awhile I was
talking with another gold member


NoNonsenseFromU 74M  
155 posts
2/21/2024 3:28 am

Anything that improves security on the site is good. Check locations. Verify pictures. Eliminate profiles that haven't been active in some number of months. Provide *some* incentive to stay and be active.


tylerj13 19M
23 posts
2/21/2024 4:46 am

i dont think paid or free memberships are the problem, i do however agree there are a ton of Clearly fake accounts and scammers that clutter the site up.


shemyjoyy 42T
2 posts
2/23/2024 5:26 pm

Yes I think we should give credit to members like me who make webcam and publish sexy videos for the site to GOLD members, kisssss, Shemy


spankpinch10 65M

2/27/2024 12:40 pm

does alt see results?


friederike_dev 52F
36 posts
3/2/2024 5:29 am

There are (often regional though) several sites which offer more service for less money. Although alt had a lively past (but you have to start counting in decades instead of years there) i do not see any real future for it. And as service is atrocious for any member level, i have stopped paying money for amateur programmers.


Shagbot 38M

3/3/2024 5:16 am

Alt has so much variety and potential with the community section, broadcasting, and more, it's great, but it's so broken.

Just fix the site, give free members some limited chance to chat to others

Women can reply to messages freely, but men have to pay? How is that fair?

I'm a free member, and would consider paying if the site wasn't a complete mess.
And having just enough benefits to entice more, like a few free IMs a day would be great.


verytallsub 43M

3/9/2024 9:12 pm

Michael Jackson was brutally murdered 15 years ago, his murderers are still at large.



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