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miss_katerine 24F
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2/1/2024 6:26 pm
BDSM Benefits


Beginning of my Journey:

Back in the day I first heard the term: BDSM, it sounded very mysterious and even dangerous. How did people like to be tied up and create so intense scenes that a contract was necessary so that it could be practiced safely?

And at the same time, it fascinated me.

Such was my surprise when I shared my new interest with my friends, and instead of sharing excitement, I received reactions like fear or shock.

It took a long time to find the right information, not just about BDSM, but the results of practices in the mind.

In my hypnosis training, one of the most impactful learnings I had was that healing lies in emotion. Talking therapies make you understand a context. Therapies for the body are instinctive. BDSM in itself can be considered a therapy, due to its possibility of authentic, playful, and intimate self-expression. In addition to stimulating alternate states of consciousness. Practicing with safe people, both submissive and dominant, has undeniable psychological healing potential.

This generated a growing curiosity in me about not only how BDSM can be recreational, but also bring good results for the psyche.

Among my studies and practice, I found some benefits that this can cause:

Benefits:

It helps submissives develop a sense of trust and vulnerability with their dominant. As above as below: BDSM works on the body, causing effects on the psychologist. If you are a person with trust difficulties, difficulties opening up emotionally, or talking about yourself on an intimate level, practices such as Shibari or power dynamics themselves can cause significant changes in your emotional plane.

Release of fantasies: We can control our body, but often not our thoughts. And often, unpronounceable taboos. However, these thoughts remain in the head and do not go away. However, when a situation is staged, the brain does not know how to recognize what is real and what is not, and soon this fantasy is satisfied.

Release control: It is a known stigma that the more control and responsibilities a person has during the day, the less control they would like to have at night. It's like nature's need for self-regulation. A BDSM session balances these levels of stress and anxiety. Also causing respect and admiration for feminine energy.

Your sexual style: there are people who are more excited by the sensuality and romanticism of an interaction. Others, more objectively by sexual organs. Others are even concerned with energetic issues, such as looking into the eyes cuddling, or foot massage. But there is the same probability of people who are also kinks: Taboo is exciting! Some people are more mental, others are more sensory. Bringing a more<b> mental </font></b>type of pleasure, or the famous Subspace.

Play! This can be a lot of fun, such as role play, where you two are part of one game. Like playing with cars or dolls... but for adults. Role play as the doctor and the patient, the teacher and the student, the father and the , the owner, and the dog... Or the power dynamics as the Dominant and the Submissive, where the Dominant puts into practice his pleasures and the submissive receives that scenario. And this is like a sensual, malicious, creative performance, generating different types of sensations in the body. A great RPG in its most augmented reality: the game is not just seen on a TV screen. It's felt on your skin, seen live, designed, and programmed just for you. Self-esteem increases, as the feeling of a monotonous life that does not bring results to your efforts also disappears.

The taboo takes shape in a psychodrama dynamic, in addition to sensual creativity: corsets, latex, masks, food, and the most exquisite accessories your mind allows.

The pain

Pain and pleasure are not that different either. In my personal studies, I discovered the essence of pleasure in tantra. It's like an internal state of latency, an internal satisfaction that comes when your eyes are closed and the environment is dark. Pain comes when an external stimulus is caused to you. It can come maliciously, aggressively, or alternately with pleasure. Pain and pleasure, together, cause intractable states of consciousness.

There are people who are massive masochists, without necessarily the desire to receive pleasure. And on a psychological level, they are people who need to feel a whole intensity in their bodies so that this energy can be discharged. It is very common for submissives, in their humblest personal preferences, to enjoy intense Impact games when they start BDSM, and as time goes by they get more and more practice, the impact is still wanted but power games are more pleasurable for them. mind.

"The more pain I felt, the more I learned to love myself." - the report of a submissive with frequent practices for more than 7 years.

From experiences that I had the chance to witness, the interesting conclusion came to me: BDSM, just like Tantra, can be healing.

Domination is a Feminine Divine Expression.

It is the imagination and action of a dark, mysterious, pleasurable energy. Like a priestess reciting her poem in the moonlight. Or Shezarade, who in her 1001 nights changed the course of her destiny. Thus causing, to the male, a change and delight in his way of relating to the world. The surrender at night creates lightness in the day.

Check misskaterine.com for more.

Miss Katerine.


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