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GrayDragon23 57F  
17 posts
2/2/2024 1:18 pm
Rules for a First Home Session


First Session Rules For At My Home

There are a couple of these that are non-negotiable for meeting a slave for the first time in my home. Those particular rules are there due to a bad situation in the past with a first time session. They are there to give me a measure of protection until I decide if we’re compatible and I’m comfortable with allowing you the knowledge of more personal information.

1. I will meet you and pick you up in a neutral location where it’s safe to leave your car, but not too public where we might attract a lot of attention. Example would be the back of a store parking lot. (Non-negotiable)

2. When you get into my vehicle, the seat will already be fully reclined. You put on the padded handcuffs, then the blindfold/hood I will provide. Then I will complete cuffing your hands behind your back, have you recline back and buckle your seatbelt. (Non-negotiable)

3. I may decide to expose your cock so I can play with it on the drive, or I may not.

4. Once we arrive at my home, I will help you out of the vehicle, possibly using your cock as a leash to follow me into the house. No one will be able to see this, as we will be inside a closed garage.

5. Inside, I will begin “inspecting” your body as I remove your clothes. You will remain cuffed and blindfolded/hooded at first. Eventually I will release your hands from behind your back leaving the restraints in place for future use. The blindfold/hood will remain in place for the entire session. Whether it is removed before I return you to your car will depend on how the session goes. You will stand as still as you can while I explore your body. (Non-negotiable)

These next “rules” will happen, maybe in this order, maybe not, but are usually the things in a first session that allows me to gauge your ability to serve me on a regular basis.

6. I will have you kneel on the bed on all fours. I will then sit on your back or drape myself over your back so I can play with you, finding those spots that cause you to writhe under me. You will need to stay on all fours as best you can. This would be an introduction to pony play.

7. Eventually I will order you to lie face up on the bed, and you will be chained by wrist and ankles spread eagled on the bed, open for my pleasure. I will probably settle my cunt over your face, instructing you to lick and fuck me with your tongue, while I grind my cunt back and forth over your mouth and nose. I may or may not play with your cock at this time, but I will be nipping and pinching your nipples, ear lobes, and any other sensitive areas to locate those that you can’t help but respond to.

8. During this part of the session I will be determining your skill at pleasing me with your mouth. Whether I orgasm or not is not necessarily the goal to be achieved, as I will want to ride your hard cock. If you wish for protection, I enjoy sliding a condom on a cock, but the decision will be yours, as I trust you to be STD free as I am, and I am long past being able to get pregnant. You can let me know this decision before the first session so I am prepared.

9. At this point I will continue to use your cock and body to pleasure myself. If you serve me well, I may allow you to cum, with you deciding to cum in a condom, in my pussy, or on your own body. If you feel you are at a point of no return before I give you permission, you will let me know, because if you don’t, you will be punished, licking me clean or drinking from the condom for disobeying.

This is how a first session normally goes, as it allows me to assess your ability and desire to serve me as I wish without putting too much stress on the slave expecting me to ask for things they may not be quite ready to participate in.

If I find you a suitable slave, future sessions would include things like binding your cock and balls to keep them hard and inhibit your ability to cum until I allow it, mounting you with a strap on, collaring you, etc. You can see the types of activities I enjoy using my slaves for in my profile. But I also like to consider activities my slaves might wish to have performed on them, which is why it is important to look at the list of kinks and let me know what they are.

Xplorer15 62M/59F
590 posts
2/2/2024 1:44 pm

I'm so sad there are 1570 reasons I won't be able to avail myself of this session even if invited. Might I read about a 2nd session to which you might use your slave? Please.


GrayDragon23 replies on 2/16/2024 1:57 pm:
Thanks for the comments, and I wish you guys weren't so far away either. One of my imaginative scenes involves both a male and female slave that I join for some fun.

Bignutsforyou 70M

2/3/2024 10:45 am

Hello Mistress.

I find first time meet procedure and session very erotic.

How do I apply for my first experience? 😊


GrayDragon23 replies on 2/16/2024 1:59 pm:
Think we've already discussed some of the ins and outs of setting up your first experience.

robj1956 67M
1678 posts
2/4/2024 7:03 am

I was captivated by your words here, I read your post and it stuck in my head, I had to return again to read it all carefully start to finish. Pity that you are so far from where I live, this sounds like precisely the kind of no-nonsense domination that I need to introduce me to submission for the first time. I will watch your blog for future updates as you have captured my attention, I only wish that I could experience this with you. I had to masturbate in the shower after reading your post, imagining I was under your control, and afterwards I was still longing to return and read your post yet again.


GrayDragon23 replies on 2/16/2024 2:03 pm:
I am glad that my words not only resonated with you, but obviously allow you an outlet to serving me virtually since you cannot easily serve me physically. Too bad you are quite a distance away, as I would love to have you under my control.

smorestj 54M
1 post
2/5/2024 2:54 pm

Please mistress. TJ smores at ya who


GrayDragon23 replies on 2/16/2024 2:20 pm:
Liked our discussion so far, but haven't heard from you in a bit. Still interested?

jessiewill 53M
43 posts
2/5/2024 7:02 pm

Wow! You made me so horny reading your blog. Wish I was close to you. I would love following your session rules!!


wiccurious 71M
15 posts
2/7/2024 5:25 am

Madame your rules for a first session are more than reasonable. Thank you Miss.


GrayDragon23 replies on 2/16/2024 2:05 pm:
And maybe someday in the future you will get that first session.

jaykay48 75M
11453 posts
2/7/2024 10:14 am

It's nice to read a blog written by a sane, intelligent, lusty, dominant woman. (Alas, I'm already taken. But I have to admit, I find your rules very arousing. Maybe in the next life...) I hope you will write more about your experiences, as you have a new fan.)


GrayDragon23 replies on 2/16/2024 2:07 pm:
I hope your Mistress appreciates your servitude and you enjoy serving her. I'll consider writing about future sessions.

Helot4Life 47M
5 posts
2/14/2024 9:13 am

This is much better than jest meeting for coffee!
It would be a shame though, if You did not use me for some domestic services while You had me auditioning for You.


GrayDragon23 replies on 2/16/2024 2:25 pm:
If I had you here and needed something domestic done, I would not hesitate to use you for that chore. Too bad you're a bit far away to serve me as you deserve to be used.


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