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about me... Hi everybody. My name is Betty. I am writing this because I keep getting the same questions asked of me so thought this might be simpler... Bear with me, I have never been good about talking about myself. I am a widow. My husband, who was 20+ years older than me, passed away in June after having a stroke. Except for the support and love from his family I may not have survived this tragedy. I love them dearly but feel it's time to move forward with my life. I miss the companionship. I miss a warm body beside me at night to cuddle with. I am tired of being alone. Mostly I miss having sex. Now to be very clear, I am not looking to just jump in to bed with somebody, nor am I looking for a new hubby. I am looking to chat with somebody, get to know them and feel comfortable with them, and then hopefully start a long term no commitment relationship that tbh is based on sex... but also just hang out sometimes too, as companions. Am I complicating things enough? Hubby and I had a great marriage, and that was evident because even after 20+ years of marriage we still enjoyed an active exciting sex life. Just before hubby passed away his 'sexual ability' shall we say lessened and we discussed brining another man in to the relationship to pick up the slack... Sadly we (  never got to experience this. I'd still be open (open - get it? LO to this...If there are still questions I will update this blog for all to see TY, Betty |
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HI Betty. Sorry for your loss. Hope you find a comfortable partner for mutual appreciation. Anyway, welcome to the blogs. Best to you overall. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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2/10/2024 5:05 pm |
Thats a sad story Betty. I'm 20 years older and dont have any of those problems. I'd probably make you bowlegged. However I'm not looking for a relationship where the primary focus is sexual gratification. To me a woman is more than someone to just to fuck. I need more than a pussy at night. As long as that works for you. I'm good with it. It's your life to spend as you please. Just don't get upset when you're used and thrown to the gutter. When you, become a player You get played. Try to be careful and take care of yourself..
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condolences, it takes courage to start again. wishing you every happiness
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Good for you love the honesty want to know more
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2/11/2024 6:48 am |
Betty, In your situation the time will heal and solve these issues, hopefully nicely. I think patience will bring the solution and it can make bed for a new start, "just" patience is needed.
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hi Betty sorry for your loss moving on isn’t always easy l hope you find what your looking for & deserving of be careful who you choose always be SSC!
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2/11/2024 5:12 pm |
Sorry for your loss Betty, but welcome to ALT. Hope you find what your looking for.
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Hi Betty, well your blog is a great start! You can add a 'private messages' post, pin it to the top of your blog and we can message you. Our messages will stay private if you don't 'approve' them. Have fun!
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Hi Betty, sorry to hear about your loss. I too, have lost, and she was my world. She was 10 years younger than me and l miss her constantly. If it helps you do learn to cope with your loss over time but alas with l ever truly get over it. Hopefully we can talk more. Take care x
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Well presented Betty and good for you to make that decision that it is time to move on. Not an easy road to travel and everyone chooses when the time is right for them. Kisses and hugs 
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