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Domme? Top? So i myself classify as a switch and bi. I have had one vanilla "girlfriend", like 7 years ago. To be honest i never thought about submitting to a Female before, because in my vanilla life women haven't been very pleasant with me, no obviously not all women haven't been pleasant with me but several, including my Mother. I have honestly compared a Domme to who my Mother was (she passed away February 5th 2020) and she was narcissistic and mentally and emotionally abusive to me about my weight, my eating, my activities or lack of, my hair, my clothes just everything. So in thinking about submitting to a Female, it makes me nervous that that will happen again, especially because if i was with a Domme i would want them to be older than me. I couldn't handle a sadistic, over controlling, Female (i can't handle that with a Man either). Maybe i should just look for a submissive sister play partner 🤔 I miss being with a female, their is just something different from being with a Man (besides body parts) a sister play partner in my mind could be any ADULT age. ~I do think my Mom's<b> death </font></b>and me learning how to have boundaries has me a bit afraid of being vulnerable to ANY Dom/Domme. So it's not just women. |
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Sorry for your loss For me submitting is about comfort and trust to name 2 things either male or female. Boundaries are important and understand
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