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Hiku_82 41F
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3/31/2024 7:48 pm
I decide!

Let me preface this by saying, no I haven't gotten many rude or negative comments towards changes I've made on my profile which transfers to realife. But I have gotten comments like, oh you just going through the kinks/fetishes and deciding oh I like that today. I am 39 years old, I've been in this lifestyle for 22 years! Yes I am still curious about stuff I haven't done, yes I want to learn new things. I lost my Mom almost two years ago, and realized SHE created who I was, I thought I had to be a sub, because I wasn't strong enough to even ignore the narcissistic things she had said to me since I was adopted. When she died, I felt a sense of RELIEF, and I thought I was the monster. I have been on a journey to build myself into who I want to be.
One of those journeys happens to be that I can be a Switch, I can Top someone and they like it, crave it desire it. But I am also trying so very hard to learn to trust and be vulnerable again. I cannot be manipulated, I have boundaries. But a Sir has decided that i am worth taking it slow with me. Absolutely NO ONE gets to tell me who or what I am!


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