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Welcome to the blogs. Best to you. May you discover good discussion. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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Momokatze, Love your writing, thanks for putting this on, here. So true, for me, too.  
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In an information age there's very little talking l find. What would you like to talk about? What interests you about this world of bdsm, what gets you going, what do you want to do yet have never done?
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great read always about the communication
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not sure what to say here
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there are many ways to learn…asking questions it’s the fool who doesn’t ask & observation then trial & error well communication that is open honest is the key to any successful relationship as well your own happiness! do not be too insecure to ask for things or say what you like & want…doesn’t make you needy or a whiner! positive action reward or negative action discipline all depends on how you interact w others!
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To me, this communication has to flow, naturally. No fear for asking something, or telling something. Totally openness. Ofcourse not right from the start, but growing, while the trust grows too.. Getting to know, each other, as persons first. I always get very upset, when guys just jump into all kind of very private questions... I dont knów them, why, because i am a submissive, should i want to share that kind of info with a totally unknown person?
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5/11/2024 2:46 pm |
My hesitation in asking,is not a hesitation in questioning..... it is a hesitation in asking for a boon... If I want to be used, I want to ask, yes! Of course I must ask if I want anything....but I have this reluctance to become a burden....if I ask to be tasked for instance, then effort must be put forth to decide on the task or monitor the task...or ....I dont know... I think it. more of a self worth issue, not a fear issue....am I worth asking for this thing and the effort of the consideration of it that must be given? who knows. Does anyone understand?
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Do not despair. You have a dom. Clearly, he sees value in you. Communicate with your dom every chance you get.
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Im a curious person, about BDSM well l enjoy the deep trust and endless possibilities contained in the D/s relationship l find its healthy for the human nature to be able to be free with oneself and others whom are of the same understanding and ilk. My hard limit is kids. Everything else is open for investigation should the want arise. I like to be a bit of a blank canvas for the s type as you put it so they can feel comfortable and supped in their own self explorations. I hope this is helpful to you l await your response with a smile enjoy your day. Dont worry about the blog just be you and be honest with yourself and be free with yourself. Thank you
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