Blog : turning point

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11/21/2006 9:22 am

turning point

I've had fantasies about being spanked all my life, but for a long time didn't see any appeal in the other end of the stick. That all changed when my lover and I were bathing in a beautiful afterglow and started talking about our fantasies. In a very vague way she talked about wanting to be "constrained" but after a little prodding (take that any way you like) she admitted to wanting to be tied up and spanked. And when she spoke those words a charge went through me and nothing mattered more than making that real for her.

I hadn't had any dominant experience at that point, but had a pretty good idea of the feelings and sensations a submissive goes through, so used that to guide us. She was very willing so we found a few scarves and began. The sheer pleasure of anticipation in taking the time to have her present each wrist and ankle to be tied, then securing her to the bed was unbelievable. The feeling of introducing her to this unfulfilled fantasy, the unexpected excitement that I was feeling, the strong connection we already had - all of this contributed to it being an absolutely electrical peak experience. We started very slowly with lots of touching and soft smacks, but it wasn't long before we both knew it was time to get more serious. Time was a blur, or maybe it stopped, and we just slowly built it up, and the smacks got harder and her bottom got warmer and pinker and redder and we were both just totally connected and transported into our own universe.

And now I am just as excited to give as to get. The experience is totally different, but the sense of connection is exactly the same - it's the same dance, just a different role.


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