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Blogs > abryhtshadow > Binding the Eros Electric

abryhtshadow 65M
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9/21/2010 12:36 pm

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9/28/2010 2:05 am
Keeping It Fresh

It strikes me that one problem with long term denial might be that the sex drive just shuts down. This is probably more of an issue with older men. As a , when i could develop an erection hard enough to bore through steel at a moment's notice, this probably would not have been a problem. The problem would have been holding the explosive hormonal forces at bay. Things are different now. Sex is no long "wam bam thank You Ma'am and can we do it again now please?" but rather a more considered and deeper experience. i take longer to start and longer to reload. i like to savour the sensations as they are presented. i am much more interested in my partner's responses. Sex has become a tidal experience that flows and ebbs. It is no longer a single foaming breaker that crashes onto the shore...although i still have my foamy moments. No, sex is different now.

i understand that from the Domme's perspective, it is no fun if my response to long term denial is, "Yeah sure. Whatever." i am certain that Mistress wants a reaction: building tension, frustrated desires and sincere begging to "Let me cum Pleeeeeease!" (i can imagine Mistress grinning with delight now.) So the challenge is to keep the need going while continuing to deny it.

For me, at least, that is one of the attractions of edging. There is no recharge time with edging. It can go on forever. So far it has certainly helped to maintain my interest. As an activity it never seems to get old and it develops an addictive, self-reinforcing cycle. Nevertheless, i suspect i may need to work harder during long periods of denial to keep up the focus and tension that i believe Mistress is seeking to achieve. It will be a learning process. Undoubtedly there will be some experimentation. W/we will see how it goes.

And just for the record, after edging four times this morning, my tension level is just fine at the moment.


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