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abryhtshadow 65M
56 posts
12/6/2010 12:58 pm

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1/11/2011 11:18 pm

Spreading the Joy


A local Dom has contacted me with a suggestion that i help Him introduce His sub to electrical play. she is apparently a multi-orgasmic BBW who will be tied down for the experience. i have agreed to participate partially because i am excited by the idea, partially because i am curious, and partially because i will be in control of the electrical play.

The last item might seem out of place when i tend to be submissive. In fact, i consider myself a switch. my Dom side rarely comes out to play and in fact this is not about dominance for me. This is really a safety and sanity issue. Having been on the receiving end of the electric play for a little while now, i have a reasonable understanding of how it feels. i know that the line between intense pleasure and very real pain can be quite thin. i know that the sensations can vary over time even when the settings on the power box remain unchanged. i know that wave form and frequency are as important as power in determining what the sub feels. i also know that electrical play can do damage. Administering e-stim is more than just randomly twiddling knobs. Being in control means that i can do my best to keep the play safe and appropriate. Electrical play can certainly deliver all the pain a sub might ever desire but i prefer the sensual uses. i much prefer orgasmic screams to ones of anguish.

It seems the Dom is interested in sensual play and that is the part that makes me curious. Since i have never had the opportunity to use electrical play on anyone else, this will be an opportunity to learn someone Else's responses. The Dom and i discussed a long teasing session as a starting point. This will work very well for me, giving me a chance to slowly start the process with low power and exploring different electrode configurations. i will be able to adjust everything and determine what gives the best results. Then i can start working the power up and find out where the comfort levels are. Then i will find out where the sub's tolerances are. It will be a question of feeling my way. And i do intend to feel my way. If i do this properly, take my time, my hands exploring every inch of the sub's most tender flesh as the electrodes are placed and removed and moved and replaced and the power levels rise and fall, then she should be desperate for an orgasm. That is the plan at least. If she is not begging to cum by the time i have finished learning her responses then i have been doing something wrong.

Of course, once i know her responses, it should be possible to use the electrical play effectively to edge her. Ideally, i would like to take her to the edge and force her to ride the crest without tumbling over into release. This will take a delicate touch and some experimentation but the experimentation should produce wonderful results all on its own.

When the Dom decides that she has had enough of teasing, it will be time for the main event. As the sub is multi-orgasmic, he wants to give her an unforgettable string of orgasms that will leave her just a puddle of moaning flesh. This is the most exciting part for me. i know what it is to cum with e-stim and i will love watched her writhe in her bondage. And i will love listening to her. The Dom wants her pushed as hard as possible and i hope to keep her cumming as long as she can sustain it can without physical distress. After all the teasing, i hope it is a wonderful ride.

Before any of this happens, however, i need to do some research on the female perspective on electrical play. Fortunately i have SmartStim which is a wealth of information. It should provide me with a starting point on the best electrode configurations and the best routines to run on the power box. This sounds like a wonderful research project for the holidays. i have been thinking a great deal about this chance to spread the joy.

abryhtshadow 65M
72 posts
12/6/2010 6:08 pm

Hi givingpleasure,

It is an exciting project and thank you for the suggestion about asking her Dom about specific erogenous hot spots.

i hope to use a combination of probes and pads. i like the pads because they are relatively cheap and i consider them disposable. For probes i have several all steel probes that can be sterilized by boiling but i will not offer all of them. Even with the boiling i feel odd about sharing my "personal" toys.

There is a tapered steel probe that should work well and i was planning on picking up some heavy lead free solder. The heavy solder has a diameter of about 1/8 inch, which makes it strong enough to hold a shape and thick enough to provide sufficient surface contact. One favourite uses of this is an electrode that fits between the inner and outer lips on both sides, looping over the clit en route. The solder can also be wrapped around a dildo or plug for insertion. Of course, it is important to keep all the sharp edges outside.

i really want the sub to enjoy her trip. i also hope to drive her more than a little crazy. Those sound like compatible goals to me.

Regards,
abryhtshadow



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