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Excitement and Concern i must admit to being unreasonably excited at the prospect of introducing a new lady to electrical play. At the same time i have some growing concerns. The Dom who was offered His sub for the play has come and gone from the chat room several times since without saying a word to me. This is setting off little alarm bells in the back of my head. Personally, if i were offering a sub up to be used by someone else, i would want to know everything i possibly could about the other person first. W/we really have not talked enough for Him to know nearly enough about me. While i have the best interests of the sub at heart, He cannot know that from the few things we have said to each other. i had assumed that over the month we would get to know each other online. It seems that will not be the case. "You seem like a decent chat. Wire up my sub and give her a good one!" is really not enough of a conversation for me. In this blog i frequently ramble on about how wonderful electrical play is. And it is. At the same time it has the potential to be horrific or even lethal. Some power boxes are capable of producing enough current to create severe pain, burns and dangerous muscle contractions. my 312 could certainly put a sub through hell and do real damage. That is why it is vitally important to start slowly with each new person and learn what the box is doing to them in particular. It is certainly not a case of just slapping the electrodes on and cranking up the juice. If anyone wants to play the game that way, they should expect that there will be consequences. The Dom with whom i have been chatting seems oblivious to this and that worries me. |
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12/9/2010 10:09 am |
And concerned you should be....he sounds less like a Dom..and more like a sadistic freak that wants to watch his sub writh around in discomfort and maybe a little pain. I think I might save this experience for someone I know and trust alot better....you do not strike me as a careless man...this type of experience should be exciting for all involved
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Intrigued, You may very well be right. i have no interest in being involved in that kind of a scene. i do feel sorry for the sub though. abryhtshadow
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givingpleasure2, That is sensible advice too. Communication is always a good idea and the direct approach best of all. Thank you. abryhtshadow
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