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A question for Dom/mes Sharing. I'm not sure exactly why this subject came to mind the other day. But it did. So here I am, hoping to get some input from the Alt kinksters. Dom or sub, please feel free to share (no pun intended) your thoughts. Are there any Doms out there that "share" your sub? If so, is it with another Dom of the same sex, or different sex? is it at the subs request or yours? If your sub came to you and said they would like a 2 Dom scene, would you accommodate them? Do Doms even share in the first place? Seems to me, that y'all probably failed that class in kindergarten  . Is there a sub vs slave element that perhaps I'm missing here? Is it strictly BDSM play, or is sex involved? would one situation be more acceptable than another? If a sub we're to bring this issue up, would it be insulting to their Dominant? a sort of inferred,..."your not enough"?I'm just trying to figure out how this would work. I mean, on one hand you would have a Dom that you already know and have a relationship with, how does a newcomer fit in? Would any Doms replying consider being the additional Dom in this scenario? Is it different if the sub or Dom want to bring in another submissive? I think all these possible permutations are making my head spin. |
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First, I do not like to share my boy, period. Yep, failed that in Kindergarten  Having said that, I have been known to "share" my boy within very narrowly defined parameters because he essentially asked for it ~ think rarely. No, I did not feel any of the "I'm not enough" type stuff. He expressed an interest to be "shared" with a female dominant. Although I do not like to share, he means a great deal to me, so I was willing to try to meet him somewhere in the middle to expose him to the experience he asked for. Again, read this with the fact that rare is still a little more then the numbers we could count for this. For me the narrowly defined parameters are generally for BDSM play only, no sex involved. Further, he trusted that I would only expose him to someone who would be able to work with/stay within my set parameters and that I trusted with my boy. I would think that the answers will vary greatly depending on gender, depth of relationship, dynamic, etc.  Ars longa, vita brevis - Art is long, life is short  
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*L* Obviously little Suzy distracted you when the sharing lesson was being taught I can certainly understand this being something discussed early on, however...what if it just kinda....surfaces? I do appreciate you stopping in and commenting. Have a delightfully kinky evening.
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Good afternoon Lady Tam. Thank you for stopping in and commenting. *L* You obviously know by now I am so adoring morii!! Fun, fun, fun!!! Do you think then, that the dynamic is different/easier to obtain when it's a poly relationship than a one off? Well, thinking about it, it's probably MORE difficult, because it's a constant, and yet less difficult because it's a constant. Oy.
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Ms North, *curtsies* Thank you for taking the time to write such a thoughtful reply. I don't know if sharing is something I personally would enjoy. Perhaps as a 1 off, just for the experience. D/s is a special, deeper connection, I agree...so much more involved than just a vanilla relationship. I have started watching your blog, and I look farward with great anticipation to your further entries. Be well, Respectfully, rayne
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Your boy is very lucky to have such a caring Mistress who will try to fulfill his needs thusly. Yes, I would imagine that you would have to trust the other Domme involved, with something obviously so special to you.
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