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Of Percussion, Horses and Domspace I love impact play. A flogger, a hand, a paddle, even a crop or whip wielded masterfully, soaring. I must admit though, a thuddy flogger is my absolute favorite. 5, 10, 15, 20 minutes of this is pure subbie heaven. I am a certified equine massage therapist. Not my fulltime job, but I job that love. Once a week I give back by volunteering at a therapy barn down the street. These special horses perform miracles for their physically challenged riders, and deserve all the pampering in the world. So last Wednesday I was working on Avalon, and she was having some real issues along her latissimus dorsi, which is the muscle that runs along the spine. Anyway, I was performing heavy percussion in that area with the side of my hand, and that sort of, repetitive thunk, thunk, thunk, thunk just sent me off in my head a little bit. I was like, ohhhh, I betcha this feels really good. I mean, I KNEW it felt good because that’s what I do, and massage feels good. But this was the first time I had sort of a visceral subbie reaction it. I know in subspace you kind of lose your mind and just “feel”, so to speak, so in Domspace, is it both more and less? Are you so attuned to every quiver, every breath, ever moan, every cry and twitch it’s almost like you can feel what your sub is feeling, yet being so in your head at the same time that you are completely focusing on what your doing? When I was working on Avalon, it was weird; I was attuned to how she was reacting and yet at the same time I felt like it was happening to me. |
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just some random thoughts
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i have been both a dom. and sub. i know whay your talking about !! so nice
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i have been both a dom. and sub. i know whay your talking about !! so nice
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A submissive response does tie to what I do. I is very satisfying to get the response you want her to have. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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I can absolutely understand.....it's an ingrained feeling
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Sorry to say softrayne . . that I don't quite follow your meanings. . ..need to think about your explanation . . . and get my flogger working on my sub's arse while I contemplate your words. . . I'm sure after 20 minutes or so of flogging I shall more understand your blog. . . . .thank you xx
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It is not fun if you are not attuned to every moan, quiver, twitch, shake, goose bump, tear and breath. And maybe if the dom is nice, orgasm. I'm not sure you can call it domspace but the reaction is the erotic part of the play. So yes a dom does definitely notice it all.
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A submissive response does tie to what I do. I is very satisfying to get the response you want her to have.
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I can absolutely understand.....it's an ingrained feeling
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It is not fun if you are not attuned to every moan, quiver, twitch, shake, goose bump, tear and breath. And maybe if the dom is nice, orgasm. I'm not sure you can call it domspace but the reaction is the erotic part of the play. So yes a dom does definitely notice it all.
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Tips my hat...you are welcome lovely lady. Now for that revenge that I'm thinking of...evil grin
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Tips my hat...you are welcome lovely lady. Now for that revenge that I'm thinking of...evil grin
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Just smiles
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Just smiles
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MmmmHmmm
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MmmmHmmm
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What are you going to do about it? And I have to say your new photo is very alluring.
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I would say that in his story is the answer, if there was not a good connection between the actions and the answers it would not work ... I would not dare to assure that the Domspace does not exist, (each doctor with his little book) but I can assure that the Dom must always be focused and attentive to all the answers, much more if they are not the desired ones ... He likes horses, he dances Tango ... good girl!
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hey dreamy, what's an ingrained feeling please?
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Ingrained meaning a feeling so firmly held is not likely to ever change.
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Spanking is a good start. And yes most of the time less is just right. Winks
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less is just right? you picture of course. As for spankings, there definitely has to be some color.
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Besides...It is fun to rub and kiss away a red mark
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luv ur boobs
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