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Submission & Feminism I'm not sure if feminism is the right title for this post, as I consider myself a feminist-if you consider equal pay for equal work, and autonomy over my own body and reproductive right feminism. I want to talk about the dichotomy of "today's woman" vs a "submissive woman". Just because I'm submissive I still get to wear what I want, speak my mind, vote for who I want to, etc. The "conflict" if you will, comes a deeper, more visceral level. I'm a grown ass woman, I can take of myself. I don't need a man to complete me, I am strong, confident and independent. I'm a submissive, I want and need a Dom to take care of me in that special, wonderful, caring, loving way, only a true Dominant man can. I'm a "good girl" We don't put out on the first date. There are rules and regulations, certain numbers of dinners that need to bought. Protocols to be observed. God forbid we be called a slut! I'm a submissive, I want to embrace my sexuality. Revel in how good my body can feel. Expand and explore. Give myself over to it, roll around in it. Experience how it can give pleasure to my Dominant. "That's my slut", sending shiver up and down my spine, causing my cunt to clench. How the sting of a cane or whip becomes sublime when wielded by him. That curated, sophisticated exterior, belies what lies beneath. The complexity of a "modern" woman who is also submissive. And these are just a few examples. |
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Obligatory Alt comment here.
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mmm...Good girl.
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rayne I think you have expressed it perfectly! Being a submissive does not preclude having One's own mind etc A real dom accepts this! A GREAT post  A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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"I'm a grown ass woman"......can i hear a Hell Yeah !
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rayne There was a sub lady over here in the UK. Who was questioning in her blog some months ago, was she letting her other feminists down by giving in to her submissive desires. I think not, if her Dom treats her as an equal in normal life. Respects her & her decisions, then how she acts in the bedroom, or where ever the fun & games is taking place, does not stop her being a feminist.
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I understand exactly what you mean. I'm on the same page. We are a rare breed. Worthy of the best there is. I wish you the best.. "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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