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softrayne 56F
1825 posts
2/14/2021 1:02 pm

Last Read:
3/8/2021 12:24 pm

Not a fan


So here we are, February th. Valentines Day. I have never been a big fan of this made up holiday promoted Hallmark and florists. It just doesn't make sense to me.

I'd rather get flowers on a random Tuesday, than a bouquet of roses marked up 200% because of the day.

Go out to dinner? Sure, but how about just so I can have a night off from cooking.

Chocolates? Yummy at any time, but I;m free right now.

Sparklies? well, those ARE my weakness. But again, why today?

Meh, I'm just not feeling it. But Happy Valentines to all who indulge I guess.

softrayne 56F
3088 posts
2/14/2021 1:02 pm

flowerless rayne


DancingDom 74M
22592 posts
2/14/2021 1:26 pm

Well I can't send you or anyone those sort of things right now, internet just being wires and such. But I can send a song that you can find on the well known u tube: Give Me My Flowers (Before I Die).

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


softrayne replies on 2/18/2021 2:18 pm:
Thank you DD, that's lovely

JohnnyLightning 65M  
9676 posts
2/14/2021 2:57 pm

I was married on Valentine's Day a number of years ago. It's fair to say that I'm a true romantic. I didn't buy her an engagement ring however offered her father a goat. He thought about it for a minute and said no that wouldn't be necessary. True story.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


softrayne replies on 2/18/2021 2:20 pm:
That IS very romantic JL, however, *giggles* surely your betrothed was worth 2 goats and a chicken?

jenny14 75T  
90348 posts
2/14/2021 4:43 pm

rayne

I agree ! True Love exists 365 days of the Year


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


softrayne replies on 2/18/2021 2:21 pm:
and I feel the love for You jen-everyday

Dave54321 61M
2718 posts
2/14/2021 5:02 pm

Well I think you have a point about giving flowers, chocolates, or being taken
out to dinner at other times.

However having said that I think most women wouldn't be happy if we let
valentines day pass without doing something.

Hope you had a nice sunday anyway.
All the best - stay safe.


aliljaded 53F
8926 posts
2/15/2021 1:29 am

I agree with you as well. This made-up holiday is for the industry. Valentines Day should be every day if you're in a relationship. I received a dozen multi-colored long stem roses today from my niece, whom I adore. When she gave them to me and wished me a "Happy Valentines Day" I said, "thank you, but, I'm lucky I know its Sunday'

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


softrayne replies on 2/18/2021 2:23 pm:
the love of family should always be celebrated. *smiles*

drmgirl622 68F  
26119 posts
2/15/2021 6:48 am

I try to make every day Valentine's Day for those around me.....after all didn't the Beatles say "All We Need is Love"


softrayne replies on 2/15/2021 7:06 am:
Love is all we need!

maletramp 64M
2095 posts
2/15/2021 12:03 pm

Ok, this is a secret, so don't tell anyone.. It's all about the attitude.. February 15th is one of the greatest days of the year.. I just bought 80 ounces of chocolate that was 1/2 of on the 1/2 off price.. That will last me.. at least a week or two.. Then I go on my no chocolate diet until the day after Easter.. The reality is we don't have enough Day after Holidays for chocolate lovers..


softrayne replies on 2/18/2021 3:51 pm:
Oh, I am totally picking up your putting down tramp!! Feelin' ya! and lets not forget Halloween!

IntelligentBull 49M
118 posts
2/16/2021 10:15 am

For some of us the day is simply a Tuesday or whatever it falls on that year. For me it is just my birthday. I do not need a calendar to remind me to appreciate all of the things in my life.

I will blow your mind like a verbal John Wilkes Booth


softrayne replies on 2/18/2021 2:23 pm:
Happy Belated Birthday Bull

Vameespang 70M

2/23/2021 7:02 am

I remember it as Saint Valentine's Day growing up. The day was associated with historic and religious overtones. With age it becomes less significant.


softrayne replies on 2/23/2021 10:07 am:
Hi Vamee, thank you for stopping in. Yeah, it just doesn't seem that important in the grand scheme of holidays. Not like CHRISTMAS!!! *L*

BubbleBuddy85 38M

2/26/2021 2:11 am

If it comes to valentines day, and you feel you need to do something... probably very likely your not the romantic type

So yea, I always thought it's a bollocks day. It's not Xmas for love for fuck sakes


softrayne replies on 2/28/2021 1:39 pm:
hello Bubble-thank you for stopping in and commenting *smiles* Christmas is my favorite!! Did you see my tree? several posts back *L*


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