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softrayne 56F
1825 posts
4/1/2021 12:24 pm

Last Read:
12/9/2022 9:36 am

Wink, Wink


Blog post in comments because Alt sucks.

softrayne 56F
3088 posts
4/1/2021 12:26 pm

Flirting. Oh, how I love it. I’m good at it. I enjoy a good give and take. But I usually file it away under harmless charm. A bit of cheek, perhaps some witty repartee-all in good fun, right?

So I was chatting with this Dom, who replies, “well it depends on the level of flirting, and the intent behind it, but my flirting can be quite dangerous.”

Well spank my ass and call me Sally.

I had never examined it beyond the surface, although what he said does makes sense. I think it relates to the level of relationship, or hopeful relationship. I can make a flirtatious comment to the men who comment here, and let’s be honest, a few select women *L*, and it means one thing. But when the exact same comment is made to someone I might be interested in, or AM interested in, or in a relationship with, then the meaning might not be exactly the same, because the context is different.

I’m pretty innocuous in my flirting in general, and try not to get TOO racy, although what I consider racy, and what I’ve seen out there on Alt, are pretty much in different time zones. With some though, the “subtext” (hahahaha, see what I did there?) is definitely more of a…..hey…are you interested? Hey,….you want to take this further?

Maybe I’m a dangerous flirt after all? Or, at least I COULD be.


drmgirl622 68F  
26126 posts
4/1/2021 12:37 pm

Oh, I've known those two levels of flirts.


softrayne replies on 4/1/2021 1:07 pm:
*gives ya a good swat on the ass*, because, yanno...flirting

alwaysassertive 64M

4/1/2021 12:57 pm

if you feel like you're out of control. just let me know and I'll honk your hooters for you and bring you back into line. Other than that. Just be yourself and you'll be fine. I'm alway on the edge of racy so you might see me there too.


softrayne replies on 4/1/2021 1:08 pm:
*L* isn't getting out of control the actual end game of flirting? *L* at least from the right side of the slash.

1uncommondom 77M

4/1/2021 1:12 pm

All women are flirts,
some are restrained by
shyness and others
by sense.
You're certainly not shy.


softrayne replies on 4/1/2021 1:47 pm:
That made me chuckle uncommon. And those unrestrained by shyness or sense? Because I, at times, lack both. teehee. Be well.

downonallfours 53M
33 posts
4/1/2021 1:23 pm

the ol bug in the eye trick


softrayne replies on 4/1/2021 1:45 pm:
Hello down, thanks for popping in! Yeah that pesky bug will get you EVERY time *L*

DancingDom 74M
22594 posts
4/1/2021 2:31 pm

Spanks for the Memories Did Bob Hope pas through here?

"One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"


Miner1980Brown1 62F
179 posts
4/1/2021 3:56 pm

Isn't this what the art of flirtatious banter is all about?


softrayne replies on 4/14/2021 4:44 pm:
Thank you for stopping in Miner-yes, I wholeheartedly concur *smiles*

NoNonsense_Dom 70M  
1539 posts
4/1/2021 4:52 pm

Well Sally, I reckon you are one hell of a flirt, that unfortunately does not read the recipient all that well. I find you a sexual and fun girl, but then again I think I'm fairly level headed, BUT there are definitely going to be others that misread your actions. And I might add, who could blame them, after all you are an intelligent girl with a bubbly personality.

The thing with all this flirting though is that there are so many Pretenders/Rogues and Sharks in this place, that these cretins will take that as a bit of a 'come on' and then look for ways to actually use that against you. I urge you to be careful with whom you flirt for this reason, after all, I would hate to see you get burnt.


JohnnyLightning 65M  
9677 posts
4/1/2021 5:00 pm

You are a heavy duty flirter Sally

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


softrayne replies on 4/1/2021 6:24 pm:
*giggles and bats eyelashes*, why thank you JL

jenny14 75T  
90360 posts
4/1/2021 9:03 pm

rayne

I think we need to be careful with whom we flirt - sometimes , we mean to be fun but some-one sensitive may take it seriously ( I know some-one who had an affair because he was looking and a woman flirted with him! )


A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw

Jenny


palloncina 40F
31 posts
7/23/2021 5:53 pm

I love flirting across a crowded room and receiving a response, then coming closer, making more and more eye contact, then teasing .......and....


softrayne replies on 7/23/2021 6:14 pm:
and then?!?!?!? Inquiring minds want to know!


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