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softrayne 56F
1828 posts
4/22/2021 3:29 pm

Last Read:
8/13/2023 7:53 pm

Are all Submissives crazy?


Or is it just ? I swear I must drive prospective Dom's drink sometimes.

softrayne 56F
3088 posts
4/22/2021 3:29 pm

*ponderinghersanityrayne*


softrayne 56F
3088 posts
4/22/2021 3:30 pm

Also, please be patient I am slowly replying to all comments, thank you.


KG37 72M
1 post
4/22/2021 3:53 pm

If they are crazy I will take crazy over sane any day. Let's not say crazy just different.


softrayne replies on 5/3/2021 7:46 pm:
Hi KG, thank you for stopping by my blog and commenting *smiles* and yes, I can run with different.

subjim63 60M
415 posts
4/22/2021 4:09 pm

yes but it's a good crazy


softrayne replies on 4/22/2021 4:12 pm:
Hi jim, nice to see you here *smiles* Well, I guess that would work *L*

drmgirl622 68F  
26015 posts
4/22/2021 4:32 pm

Crazy is so relative.....I think that "crazy" is our way of dealing with things at times.


softrayne replies on 5/5/2021 8:47 pm:
hey dreamy..crazy like a fox maybe?

Devilzcharm 64M/64F
197 posts
4/22/2021 4:43 pm

Sanity is not truth
sanity is found in conformity
to that which is socially
expected.
Truth is sometimes in
conformity and sometimes
not. So to your question of
being crazy? Sometimes an
sometimes not.


softrayne replies on 5/5/2021 8:48 pm:
hello Devil, thank you for stopping in and commenting. *smiles*

NoNonsense_Dom 70M  
1527 posts
4/22/2021 4:47 pm

    Quoting drmgirl622:
    Crazy is so relative.....I think that "crazy" is our way of dealing with things at times.
I so agree with you dear lady.


NoNonsense_Dom 70M  
1527 posts
4/22/2021 4:54 pm

NO I don't think they are, BUT, because of desire and the craving of wanting to be needed, to be protected, to be used and serve, and to be valued and loved, they can at times do crazy things. The biggest problem, is living reality not fantasy, and only a good, true, trustworthy and honest dominant can ensure that happens. That is when their mind finally feels comfortable and they feel like they belong.

I should add, that it is not only submissives that can be crazy at times. The right sub does help to keep the dominant on track as well, so it is a two way street.


softrayne replies on 5/22/2021 6:22 pm:

Optimus17 46M
62 posts
4/22/2021 5:45 pm

Just a little bit..


softrayne replies on 5/3/2021 7:47 pm:
*laughs* indeed Optimus, indeed!

JohnnyLightning 65M  
9624 posts
4/22/2021 6:02 pm

All subs are crazy, just to varying degrees.

Howling at the moon and mal ad osteo.


softrayne replies on 5/5/2021 8:49 pm:
Couldn't agree more JL!

alwaysassertive 64M

4/22/2021 6:46 pm

Maybe you're crazy and maybe you're not. I don't drink or smoke so good luck driving me to drink. I used to go to a few bars on the weekend, but since I was riding a motorcycle. I was there for dinner, to listen to some music and to socialize.
Generally If you think you're crazy then you're not.
If a Dom took up drinking, cussing or yelling because he couldn't handle you. Then perhaps he's not the strong dominant one you perceived him as.


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7020 posts
4/22/2021 6:56 pm

Lovable.


softrayne replies on 5/5/2021 8:49 pm:
awwww, so sweet Dreamcatcher <3

DragonTrucker69 55M

4/22/2021 7:06 pm

There must be a little craziness in all of us. Why would we be drawn to this lifestyle. Weather you be sub or Dom. Subs give their all to the Dom that they choose, and that Dom takes responsibility for their all. In some way we are all crazy.


2nycdom99 51M  
5 posts
4/22/2021 7:26 pm

Yes.


softrayne replies on 5/5/2021 8:50 pm:
*L* succinct and to the point. I like it!!

G00dHand5 32M

4/22/2021 8:01 pm

I think the term crazy is over used these days for anyone who has their own unique view of the world. It is true that subs might frustrate doms at times with their emotional or mental dilemmas but if you have a good dom then they will take the time to understand and work with you to move forward. Plus if we all wanted normal then we would be living that hollywood white picket fence fantasy or at least trying to do so. So chin up, the lifestyle is a journey, you will find your path.


softrayne replies on 5/5/2021 8:58 pm:
Very wise words from someone so young. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. Good luck in your search, be well, rayne.

meek2021 47M

4/23/2021 5:21 am

To quote a famous philosopher, crazy is as crazy does.


aliljaded 53F
8872 posts
4/27/2021 6:29 am

Crazy as in insane.. No, I don't think so. Crazy for a special someone. Yes, all the way.

"Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”


softrayne replies on 5/5/2021 8:55 pm:
Hi jaded, always nice when you pop in *smiles* So being crazy, doesn't necessarily make you crazy..teehee.

CtDOM4u2011a 62M  
18 posts
5/5/2021 5:53 pm

Three Dog Night
Never Been To Spain
1st stanza
Always seemed to resonate with me.


softrayne replies on 5/5/2021 8:53 pm:
Ok, thanks for chiming in CTDom, be well, rayne

Summerkinknow 51M

5/21/2021 12:57 pm

Very few peoe are crazy

Unique a better word!


softrayne replies on 5/22/2021 6:24 pm:
I will take unique any day of the week. Thanks for stopping in and commenting


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