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Purrrrs, not Pops *happypurringrayne* |
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Sometimes it’s about the purrrrs, and not the POP's. Sure, the wild abandonment of kinky fuckery is a smorgasbord of decadent delights we all wish to sample repeatedly-primal sex, flogging, spanking, paddling, bondage, knife play, whatever your kink happens to be, can we get a hell yes?! Neon sign me up!! But sometimes, it’s really wonderful to just sit on the couch and snuggle and drink tea and talk about normal, yet intimate things…..favorite smells, childhood memories, interspersed with soft touches that create bonds without the expectation of it necessarily leading to more. Forehead kisses and giggles. Cuddles and blankets. It makes me feel seen, and safe and connected. All of which leads to better kink in my opinion. So yes, explosions are great, but it’s in those quiet moments that the relationship part of a D/s relationship is formed. So thank You.
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Agreed. Contrasts. We need them to avoid relationships becoming one-dimensional and stale.
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11/29/2021 9:31 pm |
I'm much more than what I appear to be here. Anyone thinking they know what im about from the interactions I have here is only scratching the surface of who I am. I'm not always trying to get off or get a woman off, but I am always in control and dominant. That never changes. Drinking hot tea is a plus. I enjoy old china. I typically drink from a cup thats over a100 years old.I hope you have a nice night.
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That sounds delightful, and as it shuold be. "One Big Sky Covers Us All Equally"
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11/29/2021 11:19 pm |
It is the quiet moments that are what any relationship are about not just D/s ones. The quiet moments speak to the truth about any relationship the rest is external noise
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Yes! Without the purrss, the intense connection on all levels, there is only kinky (ab)use of each others body..... Those moments are very, very important, sitting together, quiet and talk with each other, laugh, drink, eat, cry, sleep, together.... I like what alwaysassertive says about it.
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I love those quiet times together as well, A. They lead way to better connections and better kinky fuckery (as you so eloquently put it.) "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.”
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I was just thinking almost this very same thing yesterday, especially now that winter is upon us. A partner, just to get close on the couch, some holiday lights, a warm blanket, a movie you both enjoy, just together and warm, no expectations, only togetherness.
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could not have said it any better!
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You are such a little minx, my dear! You keep enjoying all the little things that make this lifestyle so special.
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Those are the moments that broaden the connection, intimacy.. without them, it just wouldnt be the right or complete thing xx
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rayne As Ex said, these are the moments that make a relationship! Anyone can use a flogger etc but only a special few can make us purr  A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. George Bernard Shaw Jenny
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Makes total sense and not too much to ask. 
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12/1/2021 1:40 am |
Well done.
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12/3/2021 2:33 am |
The quiet moments are living the life. Everything else is just practice.
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Agreed totally. I miss that.
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12/27/2021 11:45 am |
I've always said... "I don't want a partner in kink I wouldn't choose in vanilla..." Thank you for the thoughts this morning.
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laughing Dear Rayne I hope that you get the chance to sit and cuddle with someone of substance. BANG or POP is good but it does not soothe the soul, it just heightens the mood of the moment, and then fades away. The feeling of that cuddle or the smack on the arse stays with you for a hell of a lot longer.
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